About Aunty

Aunty is a new senior citizen and loving this phase of her life. Less responsibilities, less fear of being weird, able to do more of the things that I want to do! Older, yes, slower, yes, but life is even more wonderful in my golden years and I look forward to even goldener ones.

Hawaii, through a very local lens

2013-07-28_13-36-09Pal Fay has a pal Jalna who is a photographer of everything.  When I just want to enjoy something for the sheer pleasure of enjoying and taking a break, I take a look at Jalna.blogspot.com and it transports me to the true localness of Hawaii, beautifully.

Her photographs are so well done, they are delicious and habit forming.  They are also bad for my compulsive collection behavior, as Jalna and her sisters go to the swap meet and pick up treasures that I start to think that I need to have too!  As a result, I started buying marbles after an especially detailed and wonderful posting of Jalna’s marbles that had names like Superman, Corkscrew, Popeye, and more .

Aunty's eBay purchase of Sally Hansen's polish. I was gonna include the marbles I bought too, but I lost them.........

Aunty’s eBay purchase of Sally Hansen’s polish. I was gonna include the marbles I bought too, but I lost them………

Her review of Sally Hansen’s Salon Manicure nail polish with the silver cap made me go out and buy one from Longs Drugs – and she was right!  It is a great nail polish because the brush is flat and wide.  So Aunty bought more on eBay – if you see any colors you want to try, let Aunty know! (note:  the picture on the right was taken by Aunty – Jalna’s photos and skill are those of a master and of master quality.)

Occasionally she will post a recipe of a dinner that her husband (sounds like a great guy!) made or of a product that she likes.  Her  June 3, 2013 post was for a great microwave mochi recipe, super easy, super fast, and super ono looking!  She shares the best of whatever she comes across, and this recipe was from her sister’s mother-in-law.  Such an awesome local family.

She has photos of food, weather, marauding rabbits, events such as her class reunion, and of course the swap meet, with commentary that makes me wanna laugh or sigh.

When you are ready to get a taste of the wonderful typical pace of Hawaii living, visit Jalna, and enjoy.  It is like wading in jello, in color and in excellent focus.

 

Gurus of Wealth

2013-06-02_16-09-10The best way to get wealthy is slow and steady, not fast and risky.   “But I don’t have any money” is the most common cry and stops most people in their tracks.  Successful people will find a way so they do have money to invest.

The following are a summary of programs/authors/subscriptions/methods that I have tried and my recommendations based on personal experience that are specific to wealth building:

Michael Masterson

Michael Masterson is a prolific author of many wealth building strategies.  I highly recommend his book “Automatic Wealth” as a blueprint of setting your path to success.  I have learned to make better use of my time using his 7 year/yearly/monthly/weekly/daily/hourly planner method.  The magic of his method is that it encompasses more than just the financial aspect of your life.  You will also include your health, personal life, social aspects, and spiritual if you so desire.  Michael writes a column on an occasional basis on Early to Rise.

Mark Ford

mark fordaka Michael Masterson, now writes on a regular basis for the Palm Beach Letter (subscription price of $99 annually).  He explained why he changed his name, and it really doesn’t matter to me because this man is a genius at giving valuable advice for wealth.  If Aunty could choose just one source to recommend for money, investment, income advice, it would be Mark Michael Masterson Ford.  Aunty just signed up for his Palm Beach Wealth Builder’s Club.  The subscription cost was $1250 for the first year, and $87.50 annually.  To tell you the truth, Aunty almost called to cancel when I saw the charge on my credit card statement during an especially tough month, but I looked back on what I had received in the recent lessons, and knew that this was the “club” that had the strategies, support, and answers that Aunty needed in order to stay the path to get financial independence.  Aunty will share in cliff note format what I have learned as the lessons are flying into my email box, but to truly learn from this best of the best, Aunty recommends that you subscribe because some of his recommendations are not what Aunty would do, but you might, and vice versa.

2013-06-02_16-14-33Hawaii Real Estate Investors Club run by Paul Xavier.  As the months and soon to be years go by of my investing growth, I have come to run the gamut of emotions about HiRei.  I first went there to learn about real estate investing and some of the meetings were excellent, some so-so.  The greatest value I have gotten from these meetings is finding fellow investors who are willing to share what they know, and becoming friends with these people.  I also learn a LOT.  Paul’s depth of knowledge is quite amazing.  His ethics are good.  Sometimes his answers are too abrupt, but they usually ring true.  Come check out this group that meets on the first Thursday of every month at JCCH on Beretania.  Annual subscription is $120, guests can attend a meeting for $15.  Dues and parking are collected at the door, so it’s not a freebie, but it is worth it.

2013-06-02_16-17-52BawldGuy Talking

Jeffrey Brown has a great blogsite packed full of great financial info for the baby boomer generation.  Based in San Diego, he sometimes sounds like a Canadian with a Texas attitude, lol.  Not only does he write insightful witty articles, he also has guest contributors with top dog credentials and information.  One day I am actually going to call him since he keeps suggesting that we do so.  If you have a few grey hairs, check out Bawld Guy Talking.  Smart financial advisor, always learning, great judgement calls.  If you don’t have a plan to get to where you want to go in your golden years, read his blogsite, and give him a call.  Let me know what he says.  If I call him first, I’ll let you know.  [Wanted to let you know that I called Jeff Brown today.  We differed on many grounds, but I must say it was one of the best 90 minutes (!) of conversation and communicating that I have had for eons!  This is a very astute gentleman, and if I were to do it all over again, I would want to have him in my corner as my coach, referee, and friend.  That being said, there may be changes in our financial picture in the near future.  Whatever happens, it has to make sense for Aunty and Uncle, and it has to feel that it is right for us.  Confucious say, “When it becomes obvious to you that you cannot reach your goal, don’t adjust your goal, adjust the actions which you are taking.”  Bawld Guy Jeff Brown is something like a modern day Confucious.  Someone worth paying attention to even though his current target market is Texas and mine is Las Vegas.]

2013-06-02_16-22-03Joe Taxpayer

Joe is a smart young man with a common sense approach to wealth.  www.JoeTaxpayer.com, Financial Commentary for the Average Joe.  Joe is on the side of people like me – he calls a spade a spade.  One example is his research and rebuttals about a mortgage pay down program, the Money Merge Account by United First Financial .  This MMA program costs $3500, an overpriced multi level marketing scheme.  Joe even provides a free spreadsheet (see his page – the first link is his excellent and easy to use worksheet – highlighted in green – his MMA worksheet) that you can use to plug in your own numbers to pay down your mortgage faster, and if you use the $3500 as an initial principal payment, you are already much better off than buying the web-based MMA program.  HOWEVER, now that we are investors, paying off one’s mortgage as fast as one can is not the best use of discretionary income.  Joe’s website is a good one though not biased toward real estate.  It is a middle of the road eyes wide open and geared to opportunity kind of place.

2013-06-02_16-27-56Raymond Aaron’s Wealth Creator Program

I heard Raymond Aaron speak at a recent HiREI weekend event.  His system on goal accomplishment was excellent.  As a result, I signed up for his Wealth Creator Program.  Not only is Raymond an excellent speaker, he is also an excellent salesman willing and able to share his best tips and secrets.  He invented the MTO approach to goals.  M is for the minimum level of a goal – what you can be counted on to achieve, T is for the target level – which is a stretch, and O is for the outrageous – what you are sure you cannot achieve (but may end up achieving because you will be on a roll!)  If he ever comes to town again, make sure you sign up to hear him speak.  As an example of his high level teaching style, here is an interview with Robert Kiyosaki (Rich Dad, Poor Dad) that he sent to subscribers:  RK Interview.

I just started reading Raymond Aaron’s newest book “Double Your Income Doing What You Love”.  After a few pages in, I can tell – this book sparkles.  Its title does not do it justice.  This is one of the few books that are truly life changing.  I will write a book report after I read it.  Buy it if you can.

*Caveat:  Watch your expenses whenever you buy a program from a guru or mentor.  Some will sell you a program that allows you full access to resources/communication for a year, some will charge you fees on a monthly basis for a minimum of a year under contract – and these can be pricey!  Multiply what you are paying for on a monthly basis by 12 (months).  That is your annual outlay.  Ask yourself if it is worth it and you are getting value/action from it.  If it is, continue.  If it is not, discontinue asap if you are able to (READ the contract).  This was the case with Raymond’s program, and I also had to pay a foreign transaction fee on my month charges because he runs a Canadian corporation.

Kung Fu Finance

Kung Fu Girl is on a break, but her free blog has much to peruse.  I look forward to her new posts in the near future.

2013-04-17_12-03-06Robert Kiyosaki

Robert Kiyosaki was born and raised in Hawaii, but has left the islands to make it bigger and richer elsewhere.  I can see why – Hawaii is such a laid back place, not a place for someone who wants to move ahead.  Someone once described living in Hawaii as a slowing down in life – like walking through jello.

When Robert met and married Kim, his beautiful young wife, his journey and trials began, with the lessons that he learned from his “Rich Dad” on the island of Hawaii, as well as from Buckminister Fuller, and others.  He invented a game, wrote a book, got on the Oprah Show, and the rest was history, as they say.

It is Robert Kiyosaki’s books and his Cash Flow game that turned the tide in Aunty’s mindset and Aunty hopes to meet the great man one day soon to thank him in person.

Business Credit

I am learning about obtaining business credit.  This is important to me because currently our action plan to keep buying properties has hit a small road block.

The original plan was to purchase a Vegas property in cash (cash is king), cash out refinance the property to get the cash back out, and buy another property.  This was to be repeated as many times as possible until the cash supply dries up.

The problem occurred with the very tight lending policies of the banks, as well as a rather new rule of most major banks allowing a person/investor only 4 conventional mortgage loans.

Other options are hard money loans, angel investors, etc. but my first and favorite way to borrow money is with the bank.

At a recent BOSS Inc U event, attorney Rod Butters introduced the concept of business credit.  I, of course, had to sign up for the program.

Step 1 is setting up your business entity.  I use a Nevada LLC set up for me by BOSS’s Michael Bowman – a sweetheart of a attorney.  He is like a labrador retriever in human form.  Cute, big, and cuddly.

It is very important that the business looks and acts like a business.  Register with the State and IRS, which will generate an EIN number – this is like a social security number, but for businesses.  You will need a physical place and local phone number for the business.  Setting up a company website helps to validate your company in the eyes of the creditors.  BOSS did all this for me too, for a very reasonable fee.  They will do my annual filings and keep me up to date and on track because I pay them a small monthly fee to do my books.

Step 2 is signing up for some credit building accounts.  One that I never heard of before is Wright Express – a fleet card service which is a good way to purchase the gas you will use as you run around doing business related errands.  Another is opening a MerchantCard that reports to the different credit bureaus so you start building up your credit history in a good way.  Your credit will be based on the business, not your personal records, and, as Martha Stewart says, that is a good thing.

Step 3 is checking up on your business credit score if you have any, as well as your personal credit score.  Some business credit will use your personal score to determine your credit strength until your business can truly stand on its own and obtain lines of credit.  You will also sign up with Dunn and Bradstreet, and check out  Experian, and Equifax to see if your company has any credit records on file.

I still have Steps 4, 5, and 6 to go, and will keep you informed as to what I have going on as I strive to build our purchasing power with untapped business credit.

Hey Joe and Aunty!

2013-05-29_20-29-04Aunty first met Joe Taxpayer years ago while google searching about United First Financial’s Money Merge Program.  Aunty had plopped down $3,500 for this fantastic sounding program that calculated that it would take 8 years 11 months to pay down our mortgage debts using sophisticated algorithms, money back guaranteed!  (PS don’t tell Uncle that I bought this.)

After about 3 months of struggling with their system and juggling several accounts with the increased number of transactions required giving me a headache as well as dangerously affecting my credit because of a few near missed credit payments, Aunty wanted out.  Screamingly out.  After all, I gave it my 100% attention but it was taking much too much time, and the program was not capable of accommodating more than one mortgage – and we had 3 at the time.  I kept getting told that they were working on a beta program that would be able to, and it would be available soon.

Well, they lied.  They lied about what the program could do for me, they lied about the beta program, and they lied about the money back guarantee.  The guarantee, in very fine print, was IF after the entire program was followed to a T, and the sophisticated algorithms didn’t work, THEN they would refund my $3500.  So, in other words, 8 years and 11 months from that point in time, if I could show that it didn’t work, then they would refund me.  Hmmm.  Aunty smelled a rat, and went searching to see if others smelled a rat.

One of the best rat smellers I found was at JoeTaxpayer.com.  Aunty posted as “SallieMae” and had a grand time putting the squeal on this unethical company.  Long story short, Aunty did get refunded after contacting the Utah Better Business Bureau (yep, it was a MLM of the worse kind), and Aunty became a loyal reader of Joe’s excellent info site.  Aunty did an updated rewrite of the program, which has changed its name to Worth Unlimited.  It should be named Unlimited Worthless, and Joe can prove it with the excellent payoff spreadsheet that he provides free on his website: http://www.joetaxpayer.com/money-merge-account-links/  Click on “my MMA worksheet” for the tool.

And now, short story long, Aunty would like to announce……… A guest post by Aunty on Joe Taxpayer’s site!!!  It is called “Aunty’s Perspective on Real Estate in Hawaii” – okay not the most exciting title, but, being on Joe’s website is SUPER exciting!  And he calls me a “gal”, isn’t that pretty wonderful?

Please check it out, and feel free to leave a comment here or there, or everywhere!

Lei time

star&rose May 1st was May Day.  May Day is Lei Day in Hawaii…(there is a song to that)..  Graduations are happening all around the State of Hawaii.  What that means is a whole lot of lei making and giving.

Friend Tutu asked where I buy my flowers/leis.  I have 2 places that I frequent.

Le Flowers on 2567 King Street between Kuni Island Fabrics and Siam Imports has inexpensive leis such as the braided flat ginger lei that looks like a work of art and smells heavenly.  If I am going to the Mainland and taking leis, they give me their freshest ones and help pack them together so they keep better.  The staff is always nice and fast there.   They do not take phone orders but they always have a nice selection of leis as well as cut flowers.

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Flowers by Jr Lou & T

Flowers by Jr Lou & T is close by – across the street on the next block at 2852 King Street.  Our good friend Tommy Holmes used to always go there for his flower leis for his dates.  That was over 20 years ago!  Nowadays, if I am looking for a special lei such as pikake or maile, I always go to see them first.  One year, when #3 child was graduating from a California college, Hawaii had rained for 40 + days straight.  As a result, NObody had any fragrant flower leis, and I was set on bringing up a nice pikake lei for her.  Calls everywhere said “sorry, no pikake”, except for Jr Lou & T!

Occasionally  I cruise through downtown Honolulu to check out other lei vendors.  Somehow their quality is not up to par or price with my two favorite Moiliili florists.  I used to go to Sweetheart’s Florist at 69 N. Beretania but I haven’t gone there in years.  I remember them for having very nice leis that were simple and beautiful.

For price though, I can’t beat the free ones that we get after we pick from our rainbow plumeria trees, stephanotis, or the pakalana from the vines.  Aunty will be posting a video on lei stringing soon.

Wishing all of you a very fragrant and wonderful May Day, a few weeks late.  Meanwhile, here’s a shot of my pal Lani Chun‘s pakalana and puakenikeni leis – done in polymer clay!  Lani is a wonderful artist who sells out of her fabulous leis at many craft fairs.  Enjoy!

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5 Star Rating and good Karma (credit)

Aunty was in a major pickle.  Major.  I didn’t even want to tell Uncle about it because he might get mad and make me cut up all my credit cards.

2013-05-10_20-56-48See, pal Cookie called to let me know about Wells Fargo’s stream line loans that refinance at today’s lower interest rates with zero points and $650 closing costs (that’s a great deal).  Aunty was in the beginning phase of talking to Kim, one of their loan officers, when “SMASH! ouch, OUCH!” – I get an email update from Credit Karma (great free service if you don’t select extra offers) that my credit score went crashing from 740 to 660, “WHAM!” because I was over 2 months late on paying on my Nordstrom card.

Having a delinquency on your credit report is like dragging around a leg chain with a big black ugly ball for 7 long years.  There are ways to increase credit scores (maybe another post in the future) but that delinquency will pop up in the negative column and NOT go away for 7 long years – and in Aunty’s case, that means until Aunty is 67 years old!

Normally, we pay off all our credit card balances every month.  For some odd reason, that Nordstrom card was noted as paid by me and put away for 2 billing cycles.  A letter in the mail from a Nordstrom Vice President apologized for any oversight and informed me that my Nordstrom account was way past due.  Oh oh.  Not good.  Aunty got on the phone with a Nordstrom representative and cleared the balance online immediately.

However, too much (I had late fees to pay), too late.  The damage was done because it was over 2 billing cycles late.  A couple of calls to their toll free number resulted in, “Sorry, we are not able to remove the damage.”

Never give up.  That’s kinda what I believe, so Aunty called the phone number on the Vice President’s “currently past due” letter and asked to speak to him.  The customer service rep who answered the phone was Garth – like in Garth Brooks.

Aunty explained the situation (okay, maybe I begged) and Garth said some magic words, “Let me see what can be done”  and put me on hold.

Be still my heart.  Wish, wish, hope, hope.  Wish, wish, hope, hope.

When Garth came back on the line he said, “Okay, just for this one time, we have removed the delinquency….” and a bunch of other great words, and “SHAZAAAM!” the leg chain with all of its weight came off, replaced with Hallelujah and mahalo, mahalo, mahalo.

How wonderful was that!  After the call ended, Aunty immediately sent of a letter of commendation thanking Nordstrom for having such a great employee and being such a great company.  [note from Aunty – please DO send off letters of commendation for people who make your day.  In return, you make their day in a really nice way.]

2013-05-10_20-50-485 Stars to Nordstrom!  They have lived up to their reputation and high standards of delivering excellent customer service.  They have given Aunty 7 years of cleared credit.  7 years of being able to get investment real estate loans at the lowest rates because of good credit.  This will save us thousands of dollars of interest qualifying us for lower loan interest rates.

Aunty is so happy, Aunty is going to go out and buy a celebratory something from Nordstrom, put it on the Nordstrom card, and pay it off right away.  Maybe something for Uncle, and then I’ll let him know about the credit disaster that got cleared.

 

 

 

Update:  Aunty’s credit score has bounced back!  It is funny how it took 1 day for it to take a dive when the delinquency was reported, and 4 weeks before the score was revised higher after the problem was fixed.  Lesson learned – pay everything on time, every time!

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Beginning “The Pledge”

IMG_0521Aunty recently joined the Wealth Builders Club (will give more details in a future post) and one of the bonuses of that program is getting Michael Masterson’s new book “The Pledge” in the mail.  I like getting a “real” book, especially if they are hardcover.  Somehow having pages to turn and paper to smell makes it of more value to me than an e-book.

I posted about Michael Masterson before – as the man with many names.  Regardless of how many identities he has had, he delivers, and delivers very very well.

Upon flipping through it to get a sense of what this book was about, a test on page 2 of the Introduction stopped me in my tracks and I knew it was something worth sharing.

The heading of the section was asking the reader how good is their life? and take this test.  The test/questions define the quality of your working life.  The questions are:

  1. What will you do?
  2. With whom?
  3. Where?

Simple questions which we already have the answers to right now.  You are already working or have a career or will embark on a career or path, you already have an employer, co-workers, clients, vendors, partners, and you already are somewhere.

Aunty then skipped to almost the last chapter to get the purpose of these questions.  You probably already know what the questions will evolve into:

  1. What would I really enjoy doing?
  2. Who would be the best person(s) to do it with?
  3. Where would I most want to do it?

This last set of questions do not only apply to your working life, but also your personal, retirement, and spiritual life.

Aunty isn’t the best of readers – finding time in the day to sit down and read is luxury time that I don’t have.  However, Jeff Olson in “The Slight Edge” prescribes reading just 10 pages of a good book per day.  Aunty can do that.  And when I am done with this excellent book, I’ll do a book report/review if it turns out to be as good as I think it will be.

 

Fiverr.com is even better than kim chee soup!

auntyhonalulu (1)Aunty used Fiverr.com a year ago in order to buy a cartoon rendition of herself to use on business cards, as a logo, etc.  I was looking for a hand drawn rendition since the Fiverr seller had a hand drawn self portrait on his profile.  A few weeks later, a computer generated image of something that looked like Cinderella’s brown fairy godmother in a muumuu arrived (see picture on left).  Aunty was not satisfied and thus put Fiverr.com in the “Nah, not now” category.

This year, Aunty decided to change the look of Aunty’s avatar (picture that links to an email address/user Guy's cartoon Auntyname when posting on other sites) so tried Fiverr.com again.  Aunty can be cheap sometimes and $5 is cheap!  Granted, Uncle did a drawing for me for free, but it looked a little bit too much like a happy witch with stringy hair, no lips and one squinted eye, so needless to say I decided not to use his version of Aunty.

revision cartoon aunty2I paid $5 and hired a young female artist going by the user name Eliana93fer to make a caricature of Aunty from a photo.  Shazaaam!  I love it!  It is now my new avatar, on my new business cards, and also on Facebook and this website.

I also met Chad Lamothe on Fiverr.com.  His user name is chicagoslim.  For $5, Chad did a 18 minute video critiquing the HonoluluAunty.com website, blasted it on almost every level, and also made many suggestions that were super duper.

So, Aunty hired him to redo the old blah website, and tadaaah! Aunty now has a better looking, better performing, more user friendly website!!  The redo cost more than $5, a hundred times more, but it has been worth every penny.  I am hoping that Chad will do a guest post on websites later on for Aunty.

I highly recommend Fiverr.com – with a caveat.  Some of the vendors are mediocre, some are good, some are awesome!  For $5, one cannot go wrong, unless you really rather have kim chee soup, mini serving, take out.

 

Aunty and Mr. Price

IMG_0484Aunty was in Las Vegas, the ninth Hawaiian island, and very happy to be in a picture with KSSK radio celebrity Larry Price at the McCarran Airport.  Uncle took the picture.

We were there for a Nerium Bash – what a company!  New and improved tools, great training and an awesome new program for non-profits to earn commissions without any start up costs!  Please let Aunty know if you are interested.

Aunty put $6 in a slot machine that took the money and didn’t give back anything, so it was break even on the gambling front.

We are now at home, and it feels so good to sleep on our own bed and be surrounded with our own things.  Going on trips every once in a while gives me a new prospective – also makes me realize what a mess our house is in, yikes!

Aunty is getting back into the swing of building into our retirement goals so will be posting more in the future about cash flow, financial lessons, reviews, etc.   Hope y’all (met a lot of people with that accent at the Bash) are having a great day!!