About Aunty

Aunty is a new senior citizen and loving this phase of her life. Less responsibilities, less fear of being weird, able to do more of the things that I want to do! Older, yes, slower, yes, but life is even more wonderful in my golden years and I look forward to even goldener ones.

Peak into the North

Aunty finished watching “Doctor Stranger” on DramaFever.com recently.  It was about Korean doctors’ love drama trauma and we had background glimpses into North Korea since some of the characters originated from there.  A link from the Palm Beach Letter (one of many newsletters that Aunty subscribes to) took Aunty to a time-lapse video of North Korea’s capitol done by British filmmakers, with approval from the North Korean government.

Looks pretty good, doesn’t it?  Modern, clean, happy, purposeful people in a centralized economic Communist country.

Click here to see smuggled out photos of more of the real North Korea.  Velly intelesting.  Indeed.

Here’s another interesting video, rather chilling one of a former North Korean labor camp escapee.  Jalna had it on her blog awhile ago.  He was born and raised in the very hush hush unreal existence, doomed from birth by a government of cuckoo dictatorship.  Lucky we live in the USA.

 

3 Magic Words

Bibidibobidiboo!Aunty just recently subscribed to Bug Free Mind’s free trial offer – 5 chapters of the program and access to their website (after registering and logging in).   Aunty also joined as an affiliate to the program – just in case this really is what it promises to be.  A review of the program will be forthcoming, but it really does seem to be mind set changing – the first change necessary for any improvement in our lives.  Rich Dad Robert Kiyosaki preaches this all the time, and his Cash Flow game changes one’s mindset from stuck in the rat race to unlimited passive beautiful income.

An article in the Bug Free Mind website was entitled “3 Magic Words that Eliminate Stress Immediately!”

Hmmm.  What could those be?  “You won $1,000,000” would work for Aunty.  “Honey, I’m home!” used to work long ago in the honeymoon phase of marriage.  “Just go shopping” was an action that used to work wonders.

Well, according to the article, those 3 magic words are, “Accept what is.”   Hmmm.   Accept what is.

It almost sounds too simple, but on further reflection, they are words of wisdom and really can relieve stress.  Try it out on a situation in your life that creates stress.  Acknowledge that the problem, condition, circumstance exists, because it does.  It is what has happened, what is, and all the worrying and stressing about it does not change it.  Glare at it, swear at it, cry over it, and then accept that that is what you own.

The magic happens after that – when you can look at those stress producing piles of crap and decide on a plan of action to eliminate or deal with them.

Can’t figure out a plan of action?  Another article in the Bug Free Mind says to sleep on it.  Just before falling asleep, ask the questions for which you have no answers.  “What can I do to improve my relationships?”  “How can I pay my bills?”  Ask, out loud or silently, just before you drift into slumber.

In the morning, in those first 10 – 20 minutes of arising, the answer(s) may be there.  If not, repeat until you get the answers.

Does it work?  It doesn’t hurt to try.  Aunty will try and let you know later.  Let Aunty know how it goes for you, mahalo.

[note from Aunty:  once you register for the free trial, a rather aggressive email campaign to get you to opt into the full program will begin.  Aunty’s suggestion is that you just ignore these for now, just get the free stuff, cruise through their website before signing up for anything more.  The good thing about their aggressive email campaign (done with excellence, btw) is how your affiliate relationship with them is supported automatically.]

Spell a Phone number and number your life

Personality/character analysis based on your name.  PaulSadowski.com is a website that will give you a free report on what your name means.  Pretty cool stuff – enter your full name, and you get a printable report giving you your numbers and the characteristics of those numbers.  Pretty spot on for me.  Goes to show that it is very important what you name your kids!  You can also get your birthday calculator done, but I strongly suggest you don’t access that on the same computer and/or day that you enter your full name, just being safe here.

I used to be able to remember phone numbers.  I also used to be able to remember why I walked into a room.  So now, if someone gives me their phone number and I want to remember it, I go to PhoneSpell.com, put in their phone number, and I get all the possible alpha combinations so I can remember their number later on my keypad.  It doesn’t always give you a real word, but sometimes it works just fine.

Just some fun stuff for you!

On overcoming limits

This one came from Daughter #2, our Starlie, since she knows how much we love soccer.  This daughter will also be on Wheel of Fortune on April 22, so please tune in and cheer her on that evening!

How to peel lots of garlic – fast!

Thanks to Amy Lynn Andrews’ Saveur link, here’s how to peel a whole head of garlic, super fast!  This is a great tip for those times when you need a LOT of garlic, as in the Garlic Mayo Grilled Shrimp recipe.

In case you cannot view this video, food editor Todd Coleman smashes a whole head of garlic with the palm of his hand (some garlic cloves fly around), then he puts all of the cloves into a large stainless bowl, covers it with an identical bowl (it looks like a ball), and shakes it hard for a few seconds.  Voila!  Peeled garlic!

How to Peel a Head of Garlic in Less Than 10 Seconds from SAVEUR.com on Vimeo.

Brain Fitness Hawaii Review

Our daughter signed up for Brain Fitness Hawaii sessions because of anxiety last year.  She did well and suggested that I also try it, since I am always under stress.

It is true.   Aunty IS always under stress, juggling too many things, taking care of too much stuff.  Stress makes Aunty thrive.  However, this time, I was at a point in my life with a truckload of crap of my shoulders.  I had extreme tension, and my body, psyche, and emotions were at a boiling point.

Was time to go

I signed up for 10 2 hour sessions for $1200, which was a super discounted price for Aunty.  Best results are achieved with the series of 10 – this will ensure that the benefits of the therapy are more permanent.

Dr. Hana Yin is a beautiful warm doctor with one foot in TCM (traditional Chinese medicine) and the other in modern technological advances for our brain.  She speaks softly and listens deeply.  Each session is tailored to the individual depending on what they need from day to day.  Her place is hard to find the first time, it is on Ena Road, the street behind the Alana Waikiki Hotel.  Aunty learned to valet park at the Alana Waikiki and walk through the lower parking to enter the Alana Waikiki Business Center.

First session

The first session was to help me deal with the intensity of my stress.  Earpods in my ears would bleep and ping, with occasional music and soothing voices.  A pair of light pulsing shades (keep eyes closed!) played patterns that filled my “vision”.

A bit strange, but I felt calmer and went to attend a commitment that very evening that I was not looking forward to.  This session must have helped because I was not on edge, I think I seemed very normal, I was able to handle some rather shocking events there with ease.  Thank you, Dr. Hana!

2nd session

This was about building my imaginary safe place, soaring, making a nice place to be.  This time, the first half was pleasant music and reading soothing philosophies on the tv screen.  Very “new age” music and art promoting peace, love, forgiveness and all the stuff that we really do need, whether we know it or want it.

3rd session

This was about relationships, and Dr. Hana led me through a series of imaginary steps to visualize confrontations or issues with people in my past and present.  For some odd reason, I felt more stressed after the session.  I was told to go home and take at least 30 minutes for myself in a quiet space, and spoil and take care of myself.  I began to journal, handwriting my thoughts, my wants, my needs.  Dr. Hana insisted that it be handwritten, and so I complied.

By this time, although I still had that truckload of crap that I was carrying, I felt that it would be okay.  That is a good thing.

4th session and others

The 4th session was about love and miracles.  Mostly eyes closed and visualization.  It made me very tired and I dozed off several times.  Dr. Hana also did a stress test on my brain to see how elastic it is.  She said I did well.

The sessions that followed were not as powerful as the previous ones, and, truth to tell, Aunty forgot what most of them were about – Dr. Hana tailored each session to what I needed at the time.

10 sessions in a row felt like a work schedule towards the end – but Aunty kept on going because Dr. Hana said that 10 sessions would really make the benefits of the therapy last for good.  The last 2 sessions were pretty heavy stuff, and Aunty fell asleep several times.  Dr. Hana would say that was great.

Sometimes the vocals or music would be irritating to Aunty and cause more stress.  If it is so for you, let Dr. Hana know so she can check the brainwave patterns and adjust for beneficial results.

Sometimes Aunty would get some AHA! moments of wisdom, some were fleeting, some stayed with me.  Example is about holding on. (note to Aunty -link to post after formatting.)

Did it work?

It really did!  In the beginning, Aunty was a stress case heading for a wreck because of extreme stress, racing heart, with a vise grip tightness on neck and shoulders.  Much of this was caused by current issues in Aunty’s life – Uncle’s health and one of our kid’s problems.  Aunty was at the point of it being really bad, shaking Aunty’s world.

Slowly a calmness would take over, and sometimes it would feel like a cloak of peace enveloping me and making everything just fine.

The power of peace

They say that love conquers all, and all you need is love, etc. etc.  Maybe that is true for some people, but what Aunty needed was inner peace, to be able to chill out and accept things as they are.  It’s good stuff and it’s still working, like riding on the Peace Train.

Check it out for yourself

The Brain Fitness services web page lists a lot of different products and services.  Unfortunately the services are not covered under medical health plans.  It really should be because then there would be a lot more contented people who are able to deal with their problems.

If you do go to see Dr. Hana, please tell her aloha from Aunty.

Peace be with you,

Aunty

 

To Tweet, or not to Tweet

https://twitter.com/HonoluluAunty*Update:  Aunty was tweeted by Yunji de Nies!  Not sure what that meant, but daughter said that was awesome! 

Aunty was totally clueless about tweeting.  It sounded like something new and irritating.  However, Chad Lamothe opened up a Twitter account for Aunty when he redesigned the website.   He set it up to do something that Aunty did not understand with her latest posts.  It didn’t hurt or cost money, so, whatever!

Last night at the March HIMA meeting, Lane Muraoka of Big City Diner answered questions about tweeting and Twitter for his business.  Aunty was NOT interested in Twitter because of ignorance, but went to the meeting anyway because the HIMA folks are great, and Aunty believes in supporting great causes.  (Also, each time Aunty goes to a HIMA meeting, lightbulbs go off in Aunty’s head.)

Well, surprise, surprise!  Another lightbulb went off after Lane’s presentation!  Tweeting can be kinda awesome!

So, this morning, Aunty tweeted – one to Lane (@BCDlane) and one to Hawaiian Airlines.  The result?  Dunno…..yet.  Maybe more traffic to Aunty’s website?  Maybe access to the latest deals from those businesses?

If anything, it was making new connections, which could lead to more connections.  It’s a way for Aunty to share her latest posts.  It may be more work because of checking in, but it’s fun, like Facebook but less wordy and more control, and not irritating!

If you see a post that you like from Aunty, please tweet it by clicking on the little blue bird icon if you have a Twitter account.  Don’t have a Twitter account?  Ask somebody to help you set one up.  You can ignore it, or you can connect with it.

For Aunty, this is a Star Trek moment in time, just before warp speed, entering into another dimension.

Mahalo to Lane Muraoka of Big City Diner and HIMA!

HIMA – Hawaii Internet Marketers Association

Back in November 2013, Aunty attended the first HIMA meeting, not really knowing what she was getting into.  Aunty went just to support Randy Fujinaka’s new venture because Randy is such a good guy.

Aunty and GeebzGeorge Del Barrio and Thomas Trentz were the main speakers.  Tom’s presentation was good – high tech power point slides and how to reach and utilize the internet to help market ourselves.  Geebz’s (George Del Barrio) was much more informal and spontaneous, using social media as the springboard.  Both were experts in their fields, and Aunty learned tons!  The following month’s meeting featured Kristen Robinson – a powerhouse in social media marketing.

For $10, HIMA provides a nice meeting at the Manoa Library (lots of parking), food (!) and water, and dynamic experts on timely topics sharing their techniques and wisdom.  After that first meeting, Aunty gladly signed up for her annual membership of $100 with HIMA.  We even got door prizes, and Aunty met so many others in the room by networking and talking story.

On the first Tuesday of each and every month, we get treated to great speakers that can help ANYBODY who has a business or a need to get their needs out.  These meetings are events that get the light bulbs popping on in our head.  They help us find our genius, our roadmap, our growth.

Here is a link to the March 4th event, starring the owner of Big City Diner (yum!) and how he incorporates Twitter into his business model, as well as other business insights: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/hawaii-internet-marketers-association-march-4th-event-with-lane-muraoka-tickets-10652681457

Hope to see you!