About Aunty

Aunty is a new senior citizen and loving this phase of her life. Less responsibilities, less fear of being weird, able to do more of the things that I want to do! Older, yes, slower, yes, but life is even more wonderful in my golden years and I look forward to even goldener ones.

Week’s lessons learned, Go West, young man

This was truly a week of learning for Aunty.  Not only from the great asset protection and tax relief workshop this weekend, but also from websites I visit, books and newsletters that I have read, and listening to CDs in my car.

One sad bit of news to report is that Real Deals Hawaii will not be having their monthly meetings (so this week’s meeting is off) until they start them up again in September.  They said to go visit them on Facebook/RealDeals, which I will be doing since I am already going through withdrawals from not seeing these guys.

So wassup and what has Aunty learned?  (stay tuned for the big AHA)

From one of Raymond Aaron‘s web lessons – listen for brilliance.  In fact, I had to tell Uncle that because I notice that his eyes tend to glaze over when I am talking to him.  Aigoo! (Korean way of saying “auwe”), Aigoo!  That’s okay.  It is still a good lesson and worth trying.  The next time I see you I hope to hear your brilliant thoughts and ideas.

From Doug Bench’s “Mind Your Brain” course I learned that in order to put a thought or memory into one’s long term memory where it can be used, one must do something to get it there from the short term thought flash before it disappears into the short term memory library and is never recalled again.  Repetition, association, fierce emotional feelings, and something else (but I forget, lol).  Good stuff though, and I will eventually do a Review on this excellent program.

Kung Fu Girl of KungFuFinance.com wrote her blog entries from Florida, where she is absorbing information from world experts on our economy, black swans, hyperinflation, police states, etc. etc…. so prepare for the worst because it seemed like almost everyone predicted the end of the USA’s role as the world power it is today.  Scary stuff, but Kung Fu Girl will be writing a post about surviving the coming storm in the near future.

Mike Dillard’s (Elevation Group) credit score improver Anthony Gaalaas says to keep ALL balances of credit cards and lines of credit below 25% of the full line.  Pay down immediately if it rises.  Now is the best time to improve your credit score in order to be able to take advantage of super low mortgage rates for as much real estate as you can borrow.  However, Aunty REALLY likes to get Hawaiian Miles VISA credit cards often – a big no-no for the credit score health, but sometimes the hit is worth the travel benefits.

A mean man, but he means well (I think)

John Reed.  I subscribe to his $125/yr Real Estate Investor’s Monthly and almost asked for a refund.  In his April 2012 issue, the man’s ego was quite distasteful with his bashing of some well known names as well as a rude tribute to the recently departed Thomas Kinkade, calling him a BS artist.

However, though distasteful and egotistical, this man sometimes imparts gold nuggets of information that I find very useful.

Many of his articles were about hyperinflation, money, mortgages and real estate, somewhat in line with Kung Fu Girl‘s reports from the Florida Casey Conference this past weekend.

To quote John Reed, “Those who owned real estate in Austria, Germany, and Hungary during the hyperinflation in the early 1920s were glad they did, IF they could hang onto it, and if they could find food to eat.”

Then, in another article about do-it-yourself-ing, he touched on living off the grid of electricity and how difficult it could be, though having generators, wood stoves and solar panels could help.  He started off the article with how the West was settled – the government gave land grants to young men and after 5 years, the land was theirs.

That’s when the aha(!) moment hit Aunty like a big AHA!

Aunty had to jump out of her chair and talk to Uncle.  “Uncle!”, I said (well I don’t actually call him Uncle), “How about we buy agriculture acreage up in Waimanalo or Maui (instead of beachfront for his fishing pleasure) with a 1031 exchange of a property or two, get a mortgage on it, rent it out for a year or so, and then build our ideal simple house on it with solar panels, water catchment system and live in it while I grow vegetables and raise chickens for food?”

There was a long pause as Uncle looked at me.  You see, Uncle has been baptized in a Christian religion that totally believes in God’s salvation for man as prophesized in the Bible.  Uncle is a very calm deliberate thinker and has learned to ask simple questions and wait for explanations when I come up with some of my ideas.

“What?” and then “Why?”, came out of his mouth as he sat there in the middle of finishing up a letter.

We must plan and live in order to prosper and survive

Whether the worst case scenario comes to pass, or our economic and social woes slowly and miraculously get fixed after a few major overhauls, doing nothing and hoping for the best is not good enough.

Just as those pioneers packed up and hauled their life’s belonging in a wagon across the prairies, it is our turn to “Go West”, but in Aunty and Uncle’s case, “Go Country, not Beach.”

So, the plan is to live where we can grow food to sustain ourselves – banana, papaya, mango, lichee and avocado trees, soy beans, herbs, vegetables, chickens to lay eggs for our protein and eat the bugs in the garden.

Stock up on canned foods like spam and vienna sausages, packaged foods and mixes, portable water filters.  Buy lots of soap, matches, batteries, lanterns, candles, whiskey, and other goods that can be used for barter.  (from this point on Aunty is asking for those little bottles of whiskey on the airplane since frequent fliers get 2 free drinks per flight.)

Buy as much cheap silver coins (or gold if you can afford it) like old dimes, which can be used as currency for goods.  Start thinking like people in the bartering society of old, and keep building up a supply of barter desirable items.  Keep the 2 bicycles that we have in riding shape.

Becoming self sufficient with solar panels tied into batteries and back up generators, gas stoves, water system or access to water, just in case.

The world as we know it might stay exactly the way it is and has been, but it is the just in case that Aunty fears.  I hope it never comes to pass.  Even if it doesn’t, this projected way of life is a good plan, or so Aunty believes.

December 21, 2012?

Hopefully not even a ripple on the water, like how YK2 (year 2000) was nothing but a nothing.  The Rapture?  Hope not.

There are too many things to do, people to meet, places to go.  Keep well, stay dry, make money, and be happy.  For Aunty’s sake, start taking little steps to get financially stronger, safer and wiser.  Maybe I’ll see you in Waimanalo!

Wisdom from the Podium

This weekend was a fantastic learning experience!  Aunty was in a 3 day Asset Protection and Tax Relief class put on by the great folks at the Anderson Law Group (see alglaw.com), Michael Bowman, Rod Buttars, and Aaron Yen.

For whatever reason, the class was not full, so we had a lot more attention and time for questions and answers as well as longer one on one consultations than in the past.

And this time, this class was the BEST Continue reading

Happiness before What Happens

Shawn Achor is the CEO of Good Think Inc., where he researches and teaches about positive psychology.  He is the author of “The Happiness Advantage” and a dynamite speaker.

The following talk seems to have been given to an audience of psychologists and therapists and can apply to any and all occupations and peoples.  Rewire the brain in 21 days by writing down 3 gratitudes a day, journaling 1 positive experience a day, exercising once a day, meditating to slow down, and an act of kindness (i.e. sending a positive email to someone), one a day.  This is more than just positive thinking.  It is positive doing and well worth a shot.

Enjoy!

Aunty and the Dalai Lama

2013-03-31_14-08-39Although Aunty’s fantasy about meeting the Dalai Lama face to face and bumping foreheads, or having our eyes lock in recognition did not happen, it was still a highlight to have heard and seen the Dalai Lama at the Pillars of Peace on April 15, 2012.

Aunty did a page about the Dalai Lama.  Such a cute and kind man.  He said that everyone is like an old friend to him.  Indeed.  He had no airs, no arrogance, no pretense.

Aunty is glad to have a new old friend.

Jet Lag without No Jet Lag

Aunty usually has her No Jet Lag (bought at Whole Foods, $17.99 or from Amazon.com, $8.99 + $7 shipping) for trips, but this time couldn’t find it and left for Vegas without it, and still can’t find them since I have returned.

Going over isn’t too bad.  After a short sleep at night in Vegas, and Aunty’s typical simple breakfast of cereal and coffee, the day takes off with activities, things to see and do, games to play, places to eat.  Fantastic facial, maybe a manicure, and people watch.  Aunty has fun in Vegas and no time or inclination towards jet lag.

It is coming home that I need the little chewable pills.  I don’t take them during the flight (though the instructions say to chew one every 2 hours) and I take one when I first get home.

Then, I only take them when I feel really tired – usually the 2nd day home.  For Aunty, jet lag feels like she is 10 pounds heavier and tired, tired, tired.  That is when Aunty will chew a tablet, then another in 2 hours if still tired or remembers.  At the most I have chewed a tablet 4 times during the second day, maybe one tablet on the third day, and then it is all good and time zone jet lag problems have disappeared.

However, this time, because Aunty can’t find her box of No Jet Lag, she is really dragging all day today, the 2nd day home,  even after a long mid day nap.  So Aunty just ordered a new box of No Jet Lag from Amazon.com.

That song about paving Paradise and “you don’t know what you’ve got ’til it’s gone” applies here.  Without that homeopathic jet lag product for the just in case, my energy level feels like a parking lot.

Number 1 on Cell Phones

I learned a cool trick to check my voice messages – but maybe most of you know it already.

At a recent workshop, I received a rather urgent call from a hospital requiring me to call them back as soon as possible.  Because my cell phone was turned off, the call went to my voice messages.

At lunch break, I turned my phone on and had several non-urgent messages  which I listened to and then deleted.  One message was urgent, and requested a call back to a hospital at a certain number and extension before 2:00 pm.  I was not prepared for that and thus did not have pen and paper handy to jot down the number.  I saved it in the archives and thought I could easily retrieve the message.

Grabbing a pen and paper, I tried to replay the message, but my phone did not cooperate – I have a simple little old Pantech phone that is not smart, just simple (but really cute).  No one in the room knew how to access phone messages except for calling in and entering a pin number – which I did not know, and I also did not know the number to call.

Adding to the panic was the very low battery signal – single bar, flashing red.

Well, Aunty left the workshop early to see if a message was left at home.  Message left, but no phone number.  It was a blocked call i.d. number and then finally Aunty found an easy way (using Google search) to access voice messages on the cell phone.

Press and hold the number “1” for a few seconds.  Voila!  Voice messages are accessed.

How simple was that?!  So simple, Aunty will be able to remember how.

The thumb and forefinger flight saga

Aunty is in Vegas right now – for a real short trip to check out some cheap condos.  The approach landing into Vegas was a bit too bouncy for me and I didn’t have my usual stash of li hing mui (salted dried plum) or ginger to help, so I tried a therapy that I had heard about for motion sickness, but never tested yet.

There is a little acupuncture point in the area between your thumb and forefinger, about an inch in from the where it makes an inside corner.  Squeeze with the thumb and forefinger of the opposite hand.  Squeeze with medium hard pressure and alternate.

As Aunty started to think “oh-oh” when the plane started bouncing and thoughts of motion sickness began creeping into the psyche, Aunty started pinch squeezing the pressure point, and instantly the creepy oh-oh this is not good moment passed and so Aunty kept squeezing until the queasiness totally went away.

This pressure point is also good for helping to ease headaches.  The bigger your headache, the more sensitive this spot will be when squeezed.  Squeeze for 5 seconds, release for 5 seconds, and repeat over and over, alternating to the other hand after about 3 squeezes.

So far it has been a break even jaunt on the penny machines and on the Pai Gow table, and it is homeward bound on Hawaiian Airlines tomorrow evening.  I almost kind of wish it is a bouncy flight again so I can test out this therapy again, but the wish for a smooth flight is stronger.

This post will also be injected into the Travel Tips page.  A happy stomach makes air travel much more bearable.  Please let me know if it works for you!

Ultimate Blueprint – Info Marketing Millions

Jeff Vacek and Ken Preuss of Info Renegades were in Honolulu this May 2012 to present a 3 day workshop entitled Info Marketing Millions Ultimate Blueprint Event at the Hyatt Regency in Waikiki.

This was an eye-opening training event.  I subscribe to a LOT of newsletters, programs, and free reports.  Much of the sales promo looked similar – as if they got it from the same book or template – the language, format, colors, layout, header, etc. – kind of like WordPress has “themes” that you can choose from for your own blog site and everyone who chooses that “theme” has sites that look very similar to each other.

Regarding the sales promo pages that all look alike, it is because – they ARE.  They “model” (I call it copy) each other – especially the most successful internet marketers.  What works for the one with the most success will work for you.

Maybe Aunty is too old school, and so this “modeling” was a turn off to Aunty at first.  Old school or not though, Aunty saw the potential of info marketing and wondered if the strategies learned during the weekend could be applied to Honolulu Aunty somehow, in a way that Aunty could accept.

We were taught 4 keys points of Information Marketing:  1) Fulfilling core human wants, 2) Thinking beyond the e-book, 3) Modeling after success by creating your own version of what already works and sells, and 4) Thinking Joint Ventures.  The emphasis was placed on Joint Ventures, and for good reason.

Joint Ventures is utilizing affiliates.  You share in the revenues by promoting someone else’s product to your email list, and they share in your revenues by promoting your product to their email list.  A Joint Venture is when 2 marketers connect to leverage their resources – subscriber lists and/or products.

The 4 most successful Joint Ventures are the sales funnels of:  Emails to Teleclass (video or audio), Email to Telesummit (a series of calls and info from more than just you), Email to Free Report (written), and Email to Affiliate Sales funnel.

One of the first decisions to make is choosing your niche.  What do you have a passion for, a genius for, a commitment to?  Ken and Jeff call this your P-G-C.

Another first decision to make is which revenue model (teleclass, telesummit, free report, affiliate) you want to pursue.  Once you have chosen your niche and revenue funnel, study the way the most successful marketers in that niche and revenue funnel message their product, and “model” them.

This workshop started off slow and uncomfortable (because of the “modeling” = twisted copying) techniques and after the first few hours, Aunty seriously thought that this was not for her – it just didn’t seem ethical.  At that point, it was almost as if Jeff and Ken could read Aunty’s mind.  We were asked if we rather be right, or rich.

We were taught to do market research by seeing what other gurus and top internet marketers were doing in any chosen niche, and how to “swipe” their sales copy in order to model for ourselves.  This, we were told, is done as the norm – and it must be true because of how similar the sales copy, opt in pages, congratulations pages all look alike in format, content, appeal.  (okay, so Aunty got a bit more comfortable with that because it is duplicating what everyone else duplicates and is acceptable in the industry, almost laughably acceptable.)

[Caveat:  a big NO NO is to copy the actual product, such as another person’s eBook because the original content of products falls under copyright laws and punishable with extracted fingernails or worse.]

Duplicate what works for others and make it work for you.  The message here was not to re-invent the wheel when it comes to marketing strategies.  Our passion, genius and talents are put to better use with product development than to start from scratch for the sales copy and materials.

By the end of day 1, we got into the “meat” of the education, and the light began to come on for Aunty, though still with some reservations.

Then, Day 2 and 3 were totally awesome and mind blowing!  (watch for Aunty’s seminar notes coming soon.)

Info marketing fulfills a need.  My favorite guru, Robert Kiyosaki, has said that we have moved from the industrial age into the information age with the advent of the internet.  People have a thirst for knowledge and are searching for solutions.  Providing those solutions is key, providing information and solutions utilizing joint ventures is explosive.

The lessons we all learned in the 3 day course of the Ultimate BluePrint – Info Marketing Millions was invaluable, and I truly hope that each and every participant at this event finds their niche and is successful in promoting, reaching out, and having their goals fulfilled.  Although Aunty’s chosen investment vehicle is cash flowing rental real estate, the possibilities of generating serious income from info marketing with joint ventures is unlimited, and it can be done ethically and Aunty’s way.

One day Aunty’s Bookstore may be born, or a mature aunty’s site will be profitable.

If Ken Pruess and Jeff Vacek come to your town to teach, run and sign up for their classes.  They are living proof that you can make millions with info marketing, and you can tailor it to the way that fits into your own standard and quality.

It is a lucrative business.  Aunty gives two thumbs up.