About Aunty

Aunty is a new senior citizen and loving this phase of her life. Less responsibilities, less fear of being weird, able to do more of the things that I want to do! Older, yes, slower, yes, but life is even more wonderful in my golden years and I look forward to even goldener ones.

Taking the COVID test

Pal Kay of Musings had a post about getting tested for COVID-19. It seemed really easy to do – using a swab, rotate in each nostril for 15 seconds, insert in a tube with twist top, and you’re done!

What made it even easier was registering online prior to at: https://www.doineedacovid19test.com/

I entered my name, age, ethnicity, any health issues, etc.  I then could chose where I wanted to take the test and I chose Palolo Recreation Center (my hanabata days playground).  I even chose the time of day – which was noon because it wasn’t too early or too late, but just right for this aunty.

Why did I decide to take the test? 

It was because of the 5 free cotton masks.  I wanted to have them to check out because Kay said they were very comfortable.  I have been making masks and trying to make them functional, comfortable and good looking.  And these cotton masks made me curious enough to be willing to swab my nostrils in front of strangers in face masks and plastic shields to get 5 of them.

Was it worth it? 

Yep, yep, yep.  There were more stations open than people waiting to get the test and it was super fast.  And, Aunty got her masks.  All cotton knit with a sort of stretchy binding.  They might be perfect to do some tie-dying and/or shibori with indigo.  Another project to stack in the to do list.

Meanwhile

Esther (my centenarian friend) and I will continue to do our beach day on Thursdays, except now I can sit alone on the beach instead of pretend to fish while she swims to her heart’s content in the water.  The most recent billboard at Hawaiian Rent-All on Beretania Street cracked me up:  “Lockdown Update:  People with no friends allowed to sit on a beach!”  Those guys are fun, super nice and helpful.  If you ever need to borrow a power tool or two that the Honolulu Tool Library doesn’t have, they are the place to visit and have a chuckle.

And, btw, I won’t know the results of my COVID test for a few days.  Kay’s result was negative.  Hopefully the same for me.

Update

Yippee!

Covid is a beach

It is crazy how the whole world is changed because of Covid-19.

We have stepped back and slowed down, and maybe that is a good thing.

I started making masks and in the process, began selling yards of elastic at Ben Franklin in a locker at the Kaimuki store.   The sales people there all know Aunty by name and it feels like a warm and fuzzy family of friends there.

I go to the Hawaii Potters Guild with Esther Nowell, who just turned 100 years old this year.  I call myself her apprentice, for she is like a wizard with her knowledge and skill in ceramics, drawing, painting, and life.  She loves to go swimming at the beach – and so we have been going – and she gets into the water and swims down and back with me on the shore baking in the sun.

But, Covid is a b—–, and the newest rules say that I can’t sit while Esther swims.  So now, I have become a fisherwoman with a fishing pole without line, hook or bait, standing in the water next to more serious fisher people.

And you know what?  It is fun.

If anything, Covid has become a forced vacation from the normal, and it is actually rather nice.

Here are a few pictures during the Covid shutdown:

empty Kalakaua sidewalk!

Clean clear beaches!

Zoo tree, magnificent!

Kaimana Beach – uncrowded

Fishing, no more sitting!

When is forever not forever?

For Aunty, it was yesterday.  I had mailed some masks and pattern last week to pal Kay of Musings.

I wanted to use up my “ugly” forever stamps and knew the postage for a fat envelope was $3.80 if it weighed under 4 ounces, so I put on 7 of those stamps and popped it in the drive through mail bin.  7 stamps x 55¢ would be $3.85.

Yesterday, after opening my PO Box I was surprised to see the envelope addressed to Kay with a note about additional postage needed.  I presented the clerk with the envelope and asked her about the note, and she was very nice at first and said that I owed more.  When I asked why, she pulled out a book that showed the ugly forever stamp with a value of 41¢.

I was flabbergasted and I must have expressed it because I said it was a forever stamp that is supposed to be forever.  She pointed out the fine print on the stamp that says “first-class forever” and not just “forever”.  She then told me that I didn’t have to be so dramatic.

Pause.

I must admit, I really did have to pause.  I was still in semi-shock about different levels of forever and her smack down was unprofessional.   I had seen it before from her and another of her co-workers when dealing with customers they were irritated with.  It made me realize that they were very unhappy working a job that they had to keep.

So what did I do? 

I asked how much more I owed, paid, and apologized for not understanding,   Yup, I wimped out.

And the first thing that popped into my mind was that I had a great new post that would be titled “When is forever not forever?”

Lesson learned – get rid of those old ugly forever stamps and avoid those two clerks.

Update:  These “first-class forever” stamps will still work on letters and large envelopes.  However, if the envelope is over 1/4″ thick, it becomes a parcel – and then those type of forever stamps are only worth 41¢.  

A new life for old kim chee

Aunty likes the Korean kim chee from Costco – it used to be Choonga and now it is called Joonga.  The big squarish bottle with the green plastic cover.  SO ono but TOO much.   I eat it with rice or saimin, or sometimes I would make it with spam – Ann Corum’s recipe.  But I can’t finish most of the bottle so it starts to get old and more potent and sits in the refrigerator until I guiltily throw it away after a few weeks.  So wasteful.

Jalna did a post about putting it in hamburger.  It looked really good and I still have to try it.

Recently I was watching a new Korean drama on Netflix called Mystic Pop Up Bar.  It is a cute show about a punished shaman’s daughter who has to save 100,000 people because of what she did 300 years ago.  Anywho, one of the characters shared a recipe with her using old kim chee.  It goes like this:

Rinse ripened kim chee.  (I also squeezed it out so it was like a big golf ball).  Chop it up finely and add shoyu and sesame oil.  Plop it on noodles and pour anchovy sauce over the bowl.

Sounds good and easy, doesn’t it?  So I made it tonight, but I didn’t have anchovy sauce.  (What is that anyway?)

It was karai, sour, and sweetish.  Strange but very delicious!  Perfect for a hot bowl of noodles.  And good for my digestion because kim chee is full of probiotics.  So glad to find another good kim chee recipe, especially for old kim chee.  No more waste, woo hoo!

 

MW’s Shoyu Chicken that is more like Nishime – winnah!

Aunty doesn’t cook BUT Hawaiian Airlines has some neat local articles and one of them was chef Wade Ueoka sharing a recipe.  I used to get take out orders from him at the Farmer’s Market way before he and his wife opened the popular MW Restaurant.  That restaurant has unreal fancy food and desserts to die for.  However, truth to tell, I liked the homestyle cooking from his humble tent better because I like simple and cheap.

The Hawaiian Airline’s site has other local recipes and even videos.  I liked this recipe because the ingredients are what I have in the refrigerator.  Chicken, carrots, daikon, onions, ginger.  But it is not what I expected when the title said “shoyu chicken”.  I figured shoyu chicken is easy – chicken, ginger, shoyu and sugar – so I checked it out, watched the video, thought to myself, that looks like easy Nishime, and tried it tonight.

And you know what?  It was good – tasted healthy, light – and was easy!  I like how he cut the carrots.  I like how he shows us how he puts the chicken in and the other stuff and then takes the chicken out to chop.  I added shiitake mushrooms because I like shiitake mushrooms.  I also added tsukoshi (little bit) hondashi.

A really good cooking lesson.  I know he doesn’t know me, but I want to shout out, “Tanks, eh!” to chef Wade and Hawaiian Airlines.  He made a cook out of me!

Korean Movies for free – limited time

Now that we don’t have DramaFever.com to binge watch Korean dramas anymore, I watch them on Netflix and Viki.com.  Prime Amazon has a few good ones too (Escape Landing on You and Prison Playbook being my latest favorites).  However, the pickings have been getting fewer and some of the dramas are more irritating than entertaining.  I tend to like movies because they are over in one swoop and I waste just 2 hours rather than several hours watching a drama series.

This weekend, during a family Zoom meeting, our nephew’s girlfriend who is Korean mentioned OnDemandKorea.com but not all showings have subtitles.

And then, another option came up:  KoreanCulture.org.  For a limited time, from now until June 30, 10 movies are available to view, for free!  Some of them are about the cruel occupation of the Japanese in Korea, some seem okay, so we shall see.  I am currently watching one about “A Violent Prosecutor” that hasn’t gripped me yet, but I like the actors.

I am also watching series 3 of “The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel” on Amazon Prime.  I really liked the 1st and 2nd series and love the way the producers captured New York, Paris, and Vegas in the late 50’s.  The characters are a blast and super fast talking.

What are you watching, and if not watching anything, what are you doing?

Aunty is chomping at the bit to go out like before and can’t wait for when Ross opens up so I can shop on senior discount Tuesdays again.

Do you have a mortgage?

Many people of Aunty’s age have paid off their home mortgage.  Those are the smart and sensible ones.  I, on the other hand, have kept on refinancing and will be 90 years old by the time my mortgages are paid off.

Aunty’s real estate investment in the Ala Moana Hotel isn’t doing so hot because tourism has dried up to a trickle and may drop to even less than that if our State’s newest thinking of putting ankle bracelets on all incoming visitors to monitor their movements comes to pass.  Meanwhile, tenants can’t pay their rents if their livelihood is based on tourism.

Dismal 

Ahhhhh.  For sure.

Financial gurus are screaming about safe havens and putting your money in gold IF you were smart enough to pull your money out of the stock market in time.  Aunty almost always makes the wrong decisions in the stock market and is a forever optimist who gets smashed.

However, because of the current virus pandemic and disruption to all things financial, unprecedented opportunities are being offered to offset the worse case scenario of defaults, bankruptcies, and homelessness.  Small business can apply for loans that may be forgiven if funds are used to pay payroll, rent, etc.  The government is sending out free money to individuals and married couples.  Unemployment benefits will get a boost of $600 per week – which means you might even get more being unemployed rather than while you were employed.

Silver lining for Aunty

My mortgage lender is Provident Funding.  It is a a no-frills lender with easy log in.  I can view my loans all in one place and get as much info on them that I need.  Recently, they added COVID-19 financial assistance relief applications to their website.  I read their FAQs, and then clicked on the application link.  It was a super simple form asking if I wanted temporary (6 months) or permanent relief, and the reason for any hardship.  Click and submit.  That was last night, and this morning, I got a notice to check the status online.

I got a “Forebearance Plan Offer – Suspended payment for 6 months” for my loans!  This can be rescinded at anytime by me.  The only negatives are that it will hit my credit score and that I will be 90 and a half years old when it is all paid off.  A small price to pay for a current 6 months of freedom from the biggest bill each month.

Everyone is helping

I have 2 friends who are totally in the stay-at-home mode.  I call them the Rapunzels.  They have adjusted to this well because their sons do all their grocery shopping and errands for them and maintain the 6 feet rule and stay out of their house.

There seems to be more kindness going around nowadays.  At first, young people seemed angry and big trucks would swoosh by Aunty’s car as if they were pissed at me, a little old lady who caused their lives to change.

Recently though, people are more patient and considerate, and I think they are smiling but hard to say because we all have masks on.

It is such a strange and defining moment in our lives the way 9-11 was.  Maybe we will all be better for it after it is over and learn to value the simpler and slower way of living.  I needed this in my previously hectic helter skelter life of incomplete projects and too many things to do.  I wake up without looking at a clock and read the newspaper from cover to cover daily.  When the all clear is given I hope to continue this peaceful stressless lifestyle.

And, for 6 months, I can pretend that I was wise enough to pay off my mortgage already.