The Dalai Lama

2013-04-02_16-11-32The Dalai Lama is one of three people Aunty would pick if stranded on an island.  He recently came to speak at the inaugural Pillars of Peace symposium in Honolulu on April 15, 2012.

Aunty delayed purchasing tickets, and they were soon sold out.  Very sad, Aunty was almost resigned to not being able to go, and then good friend Ellie called out of the blue and asked, “Sistah, you like go with me to see the Dalai Lama?”  Of course, of course!  Uncle dropped us off before he went fishing that day.

We sat on the right side of the auditorium and had a fine view of the screen which ran subtitles of whatever was spoken.  This helped a lot since hearing every word was important to Aunty.

The entertainment was very good.  Jerry Santos of Olomana, Willie K (awesome awesome), Amy Hanaiali’i, Jeff Paterson, Henry Kapono together with Michael McDonald (sounded great together) and some video entertainment of Lanai school kids singing a song of peace and Jake Shimabukuro playing an original ukulele piece using only 3 strings.

When the Dalai Lama entered onto the stage as Michael McDonald and Henry Kapono’s last song was ending, there was a collective moment of goosebumps and everyone rose to their feet in applause.

He looked delighted, rather old and so very cute.  With hands clasped together, he greeted us and everyone fell silent and was ready to be enlightened.

To tell the truth, Aunty fell asleep a few times while the Dalai Lama spoke at the podium about “Advancing Peace through the Power of Aloha.”  He is not a dynamic speaker that keeps everyone charged in their seats, but rather a speaker that one strains to hear and understand just because of who he is.  He is a leader of peace, love, and understanding and the way he carries himself is with humility and joy.

He had us entranced with his simple stories.  One of them was about President Bush.  He said he really loved Mr Bush, and when he was presented with the Congressional Gold Medal he held hands with then President Bush on one side, and Nancy Pelosi on the other.  President Bush whispered to him about Nancy, “She always makes a problem for me.”  Which made all of us laugh and whoop.  Being a man of peace, he repeated how he really loved Mr Bush, a very nice man, but he didn’t love his policies (of war).

He spoke about the world in disorder and how difficult it is to find peace and to be able to love others that hate you.  His solution to all of this was to be warm hearted to others.

What a beautiful and simple solution.  Truly, if someone is warm hearted to me, I will be warm hearted to them, and vice versa.

During a question and answer period, most of the questions were from people asking the same thing – how do I deal with people who aren’t willing to forgive, or have hatred, or are negative.  His answer to each was very similar – it begins with ones own self.  Forgiveness is not the same as forgetness.  Allowing the person to be who they are is love.

A question about dealing with anger as an indigenous people who had their land taken from them (this is an issue that Hawaiian people and the Tibetan people have in common) made the Dalai Lama reflect on his own situation.  I do not remember his exact answer but in summary it was that one must move on rather than dwell on the past and its wrongs.

When asked if he always smiled, even when he was alone, his answer was an instant and loud, “Yes!”  He expanded on that and said that he also smiles in the bathroom (much laughter).  However, he said, when when he has a hard time in the bathroom, he is not smiling (big laughter from everyone).  He then turned to his well dressed suited translator and asked him if he also had that problem (explosive laughter!)

After a keiki hula performance and some gift giving, the Dalai Lama waved to the left and waved to the right, left the stage and was whisked away in a security car.  We all then slowly moved to the exits, found our transportation, and went home.

We did not see miracles.  We did not participate in a life changing turnabout rah rah kumbaya experience.  Instead, we were enchanted by a charming warm hearted man in maroon robes, maroon foam visor and red socks who truly walked the path of a man of peace and love.

Aunty had a wonderful day, and with each recall of something the Dalai Lama did or said, a smile and the remembrance of his smile lightens my spirit and recharges my joy.

May your days and life be blessed, and if the Dalai Lama ever comes to town again, Aunty is getting her tickets the very first day.

Ommmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Just for Aunties

2013-04-01_16-20-38As we get older, it shows.  I really like the wisdom part and the being comfortable in my own skin as I age.  Unfortunately, my skin, face, hair and body seem to be running away from what I used to look like faster and faster.  At some point Aunty will just give up, but for now, Aunty will invest time, effort and money to slow the process down.

Here are a few pointers along the way:

Kapiolani Women’s Center often has classes on beauty and health.  Aunty’s favorite is TaiChi.  I have been in the beginners class for about 3 years now.  I am learning this wonderful exercise VERY slowly.  It has given me very good balance.

Currently, Aunty takes 4 supplements for maintenance of good health.  Two are the must takes.  Intestinal Correctional Formula #1 (I know Wanda, too much information) and Protandim.  Super Food and Strontium are taken when and if I remember.  So far, Aunty feels pretty good and healthy which equals a very wonderful life.

Learn something new.  Eat at different places.  Try a new hair style.  Wear pretty earrings.  Wear lipstick.  Simple things like these make you feel better, and look better.

The PACE exercises (see Exercise tab under Health and Wellness) are good for building lung capacity.  It is good to be able to have strong lungs and endurance.

Currently, Aunty uses NeriumAD every night on her face, arms, and neck.  Because it is so easy to use (spread on clean damp skin at night and rinse off in the morning), Aunty never misses a night of applying it.  The results are really good – or maybe people are really nice when they say that I don’t look my age.  My skin looks nice and my lipstick doesn’t “bleed” outside my lip line anymore!

Dress up. Sometimes Aunty over dresses.  We used to enjoy playing dress up when we were little girls.  Now that we are older “girls”, enjoy and dress up!  You will look faahbulous, dahling.

 

Supplements

IMG_0769Aunty will share what she currently takes and when Protandim comes up, it will sound like a sales pitch, so sorry in advance, but it is worth pitching, imo.

Uncle swears by Super Food from American Botanical.  It is all the best green food stuff compressed into a green tablet.  Everyday, Uncle takes about 4 of them.  I take 2 if I remember.  This is a very good nutritional supplement especially since I don’t eat enough vegetables.  Dark green leafy vegetables, spirulina, blue green wheat grass, etc. are easier for Aunty in a tablet form so it works for now.  I just wish it looked, tasted, and felt like a crispy fried piece of bacon – one of Aunty’s absolute favorite bad foods.

Strontium is more acceptable because of its properties and lack of side effects for bone building than calcium supplements.  Aunty’s once every 5 year (I know I’d better go more often) checkup revealed low bone density so this is what Aunty takes, one a day.  Good friend and nutritional UH professor Alan Titchenal sent over the info and here is the page on it.

One a day Protandim by LifeVantage is really something.  Aunty has more energy throughout the day, wakes up refreshed and clear eyed, feels mentally sharp again, and also sexier.  Fingernails are stronger, stiffness and pain in the hands have diminished drastically, and I think I am handling stress a bit better (but Uncle and the kids would know more definitely.)  Aunty has a page on Protandim for more blow by blow under the Review pages.  If you sign up as a preferred customer on monthly autoship and you continue for 6 months, you will get a FREE bottle of TrueScience Anti-Aging creme – that’s a good deal since the creme is rather expensive – $70!  If you do sign up to be a distributor (possible to make good commissions) or preferred customer, Aunty does get a nice commission the very first month.  The company provides each distributor with their own business website, and Aunty’s website is mylifevantage.com/aunty.

Another product that Aunty takes once a day forever is Dr. Schulze’s Intestinal Correctional Formula #1 from the American Botanical Company.  With it, Aunty “goes” in the morning, guarans ball barans.  That is very important for good health.  Each person needs to find the right dosage, and happily Aunty has been able to decrease her daily dosage to one a day.  Like the Dalai Lama, Aunty also smiles in the bathroom.

Of course eating a healthy gatherer/hunter diet is the ideal as well as doing daily exercise, but for now Aunty is being lazy and having supplements as I slowly (very slowly) transition to the healthier choices and lifestyle is a blessing and a regime that I can easily stick to.

Nattokinese is denatured natto (the stinky slimy stuff made from soybeans that is great for the health) and because one of the properties of natto is blasting away clots in the blood, Aunty takes it whenever she has a headache – just in case it is blockage.  It always works for Aunty, so this is one of the “must haves” in the pill arsenal that is always kept on hand.

I have recently been introduced to Kyani (yup, Aunty signed up, lol)).  Not sure how well it works yet, but will post a review when the results come in.  [note:  Uncle’s papa likes Kyani – he has diabetes and his black looking leg has gotten better, or so he says.  As for Aunty, I think the juice tastes good, especially the one in the packet, and I keep a little bottle of the Nitro Extreme in the purse and take squirts from time to time, but I really cannot say if it works or not.]

What do you use for your good health/beauty/happiness?

Regina Brett’s 45 Life Lessons

To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me.
It is the most requested column I’ve ever written.

My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once
more:

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good

2. When in doubt, just take the next small steps

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Change the way you
think.

4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and
family will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.

8. Release your children when they become adults, its their life now.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.

12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their
journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye

16. Take a deep breath It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is
up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no
for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie.
Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22 Just because you believe you are right, doesn’t mean you are. Keep an
open mind.

23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ‘In five years, will
this matter?’

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. Your job is to love your children, not choose who they should love.

35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d
grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. The best is yet to come…

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield…

45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.

Master Sha in Honolulu this week!

2013-04-01_12-17-00About 3 years ago, Aunty saw Master Sha at the McKinley High School Auditorium, and was almost electrified. He taught us a funny song – Lu La Lu La Li, and about how he came to be a servant of the Divine/God/Allah/etc. He was a cute man, not what I imagined a powerhouse to be.

It was an evening of really weird weather – lightning without thunder. Uncle, being of very strict Christian belief, did not want to hear about it.

Sometimes, Aunty really feels that my purpose in life is to help, heal, and give. When I heard Master Sha speak and saw his healing happen for others, something clicked.

Anywho, he’s back for lessons, blessings, and demos at the LPH Center at 885 Queen Street. Aunty signed up for the Soul Healing Days, Blessings, and Evening. If I get a chance to have something fixed, I’ll ask about the tinnitis ringing that I have had for about 5 years in my left ear.

Here’s the link to the flyer and/or registration:

http://www.icontact-archive.com/E-_x_fSJ433pL9sn5HZ9jvfv23a_tgyr?w=2

Warts and Aunty

I used to have warts on my fingers. Everyone was polite to me and no one (except one of my kids) would say “Yewww, you have warts!” so I would nonchalantly treat them from time to time with prescription wart medicine, over the counter wart medicine, and even getting them burned off at the doctor’s office.

It would look like the black hole of Calcutta for a while and seem to go away…… then they would return and grow to a stronger wart colony, happy to be back on my hands, left index finger, and right calf.

I started to think I would have warts the rest of my life like familiar slightly gross pets to torture from time to time with ineffective treatments.

Then, one day I read about one that was like an old wives tale – kind of like duct tape on warts (you can try that but my warts were super warts and not affected by the duct tape at all).

The therapy was as simple as castor oil and baking soda. Yup, castor oil and baking soda.

Wash area with soap and water, pat dry but allow wart to remain moist. With a clean sterilized needle, scratch the surface of the wart or mole only, concentrating on the center. Then, use an emery board to file the wart or mole smooth – a few strokes should do it. Make a paste with the castor oil and baking soda – just enough for one application (because you will make a fresh mixture each time.) Apply to wart or mole, it might sting a little. Let it sit for a while, then put a little extra dab on it and cover with a bandaid to keep it from getting messy as well as keeping it castor oil moist.

Repeat at least 3 times per day for as long as it takes – make sure you wash the area with soap and water and pat dry before applying paste. You do not need to scratch or sand the surface again. It will look quite ugly, like an eruption of ugly the way Compound W makes it look. It may take weeks, so don’t get discouraged. Mine took 6 weeks, and I was determined to see it through.

It seemed to get bigger and stay bigger at first, and then slowly the wart started to get a little smaller. All the while it was ugly! White dead looking skin and lots of oil soaked bandaids.

A smaller one that I had on my leg came off after just 2 weeks, and each day I thought the bigger ones on my finger would fall off, but they held on and held on for weeks longer, and then one day, I peeled off the bandaid, and the last vestiges of those familiar warts fell off, and I was left with a wrinkled wounded looking finger without warts! It was almost concave where the warts used to be, and it was beautiful!

I have been wart free ever since. Free at last, free at last. Maybe not as huge a milestone as Martin Luther King, but it did feel and look great.

I have heard for external genital warts (yikes! I didn’t have those) you skip the baking soda and scratching and just use a cotton swab to apply castor oil.

Did you know that warts are highly contagious? I hope I didn’t infect anyone while I had warts. If I did, I owe them a bottle of castor oil.

Egg Whites for Burns

This from my sister in law:

A young man sprinkling his lawn and bushes with pesticides wanted to check the contents of the barrel to see how much pesticide remained in it. He raised the cover and lit his lighter; the vapors inflamed and engulfed him. He jumped from his truck, screaming. His neighbor came out of her house with a dozen eggs, yelling: “bring me some eggs!” She broke them, separating the whites from the yolks. The neighbor woman helped her to apply the whites on the young man’s face. When the ambulance arrived and when the EMTs saw the young man, they asked who had done this. Everyone pointed to the lady in charge. They congratulated her and said: “You have saved his face.” By the end of the summer, the young man brought the lady a bouquet of roses to thank her. His face was like a baby’s skin.

Healing Miracle for burns:

Keep in mind this treatment of burns which is included in teaching beginner fireman this method. First aid consists to spraying cold water on the affected area until the heat is reduced and stops burning the layers of skin. Then, spread egg whites on the affected are.
One woman burned a large part of her hand with boiling water. In spite of the pain, she ran cold faucet water on her hand, separated 2 egg white from the yolks, beat them slightly and dipped her hand in the solution. The whites then dried and formed a protective layer.
She later learned that the egg white is a natural collagen and continued during at least one hour to apply layer upon layer of beaten egg white. By afternoon she no longer felt any pain and the next day there was hardly a trace of the burn. 10 days later, no trace was left at all and her skin had regained its normal color. The burned area was totally regenerated thanks to the collagen in the egg whites, a placenta full of vitamins.

Drugs = Side Effects

I don’t like drugs. Although I believe modern medicine has many excellent facets to dealing with disease, it is also allowing us to bypass healthy habits for the quick fix. We all KNOW the basics of what we should be doing – eat less, eat better foods, exercise, poop daily, etc. Modern medicine seems to believe in modern theories – cut it out or dose it with a drug. Naturopathic healers believe the body can heal itself, but it is a slower more arduous course, and since we are an instant gratification kind of society, drugs fit the bill, and side effects are dealt with more drugs, on and on.

Here is one of the latest articles on natural health. The title deals with heart disease, but the recommendations are good in general (unless you are a believer in vegetarianism):
Wednesday October 6, 2010
Slash Heart Disease Risk by 81 Percent

For millions or people, statin drugs are the number one doctor-prescribed defense against heart disease. In fact, so many people take them that we spent $12.5 billion on Lipitor in 2006 alone. But brand new research reveals that they may seriously damage your health. That’s because statins significantly increase your risk of diabetes.

That means millions of people taking the drugs now have to decide which is worse… heart disease or diabetes.

But it doesn’t have to be this way. An “epic” study shows that specific dietary changes can reduce your risk of heart disease by 81 percent – without resorting to statin drugs. And leading doctors agree that combatting heart disease through diet isn’t just safer… it’s far more effective too.

Dangers of Statin Drugs

We’ve reported on the dangers of statin drugs before. Plenty of reports say statin drugs cause severe pain and can actually make muscles atrophy. Worse, they may actually increase your risk of stroke.

Now, a brand new study, published in The Lancet, confirms that statins do cause diabetes. Researchers reviewed the case files of over 91,000 people from 1994 through 2009. They found a direct link between people taking statins and developing diabetes.

“Why use a [drug] with significant risks when other treatments [are] more effective for reducing heart disease?” asks Dr. Mark Hyman, a Massachusetts physician who serves on the Board of Advisors at Georgetown University. He says he’s helped hundreds of patients combat heart disease without using statin drugs.

Another study – put out several years earlier by the American Medical Association – also found that statins increase diabetes risk. The paper showed that while statins lowered cholesterol, they raised insulin levels. And that’s a precursor for diabetes.

What’s worse, raised insulin leads to extra body fat… higher blood pressure… and increased inflammation. All of which contribute to heart disease.

“In other words, lowering cholesterol with statins actually increases the risk of heart disease,” says Dr. Hyman.

But statin drugs are huge business. They generate over $12.5 billion in sales each year for Lipitor alone. And many doctors are pushed to prescribe them.

These drugs are the conventional response to high cholesterol. So drug companies have worked to make sure more people take them.

“When I was at medical school, the ‘normal’ cholesterol was 250,” says Dr. Carolyn Dean, MD. “The new ‘normal’ promoted by drug companies is 180. Hammering cholesterol down with statin drugs is the wrong approach.”

Causes of Heart Disease

The Archives of Internal Medicine has just published the results if its “EPIC” study. Researchers took 23,000 people and studied their risk factors for heart disease. They found that changes in diet reduced heart attack risk by 81 percent.

How could such simple changes deliver such amazing results? By lowering blood pressure and reducing inflammation.

This comes as no surprise to NHD panel member Dr. Dwight Lundell. He was a heart surgeon for 25 years and performed over 5,000 open-heart surgeries. During his career he’s pioneered several innovative advances in coronary medicine.

He says four things cause inflammation and lead to heart disease.

1) Simple carbs and grains are the single biggest threat to heart health. They raise blood sugar which releases insulin into your system. Insulin stores and builds fat – especially around the waist.

“Every time we raise our blood sugar we injure the delicate lining of our blood vessels,” says Dr. Lundell.

And that leads to inflammation and heart disease.

2) Vegetable oils are deadly for our coronary system. They contain an unhealthy amount of omega 6 fatty acids.

Our bodies change these fatty acids into chemicals that cause chronic inflammation.

“We do need omega 6,” says Dr. Lundell. “But we’re getting 20-25 times more in our diets.”

3) Deficiency in omega 3 fatty acids hurts heart health.

“Omega 3 is a powerful natural anti-inflammatory,” he says.

There’s plenty of research which shows omega 3 boosts heart health. Those studies say it’s your best option for cooling inflammation.

4) Oxidative stress damages your heart. Free radical damage causes inflammation and increases stroke risk.

“Oxidative stress is detrimental to health and is definitely [linked] with heart disease,” says Dr. Lundell.

The good news is that all of these heart risks are easy to fix without statin drugs. Small, simple changes in diet can improve heart health.

Boost Heart Health through Diet

You can take a few key steps to improve your diet and heart health. In a nutshell, you need to eat more omega 3s and cut back on omega 6s. Slash your carbs and go for healthy fats and protein. And look to boost your intake of antioxidants.

Here’s a step-by-step guide to what you need to do:

Make omega 3 fatty acids part of your daily diet. So much scientific evidence shows that omega 3s are vital to heart health. And there are plenty of good sources to choose from. There’s no good reason not to enjoy omega 3s.

Your best sources for these fatty acids include:

Sardines
Tuna
Wild salmon
Grass-fed beef
Milk

Cage-free eggs
Be sure when choosing fish that you avoid the farm-raised variety. It’s better to go for cold-water wild fish. That’s because they have a proper ratio of omega 3 to omega 6.

Dr. Lundell says you need to eat at least two to three servings of fresh fish each week.

Another easy option for getting omega 3 into your diet is a simple fish oil supplement.

“Supplement your diet with at least 3 grams of high quality pure fish oil,” says Dr. Lundell.

Cut out omega 6 from your diet. Too much of this fatty acid will do serious harm. So try to keep your omega 3s high and your omega 6s low. It’s pretty easy to do with a little effort and well worth it. Just make sure you avoid the worst foods. These include:

Grain-fed beef
Grain-fed chicken
Processed foods
Fried foods
Vegetable oils
Try to get more saturated fats into your diet. These can really help to reduce inflammation.

Great sources include:

Olive oil
Walnuts, pecans, and almonds
Avocados
Slash sugary and starchy carbs from your diet. These are the worst offenders for raising blood sugar and insulin. That process wreaks havoc on long-term heart health. Worst offenders include:

Bread
Pasta
Rice
Look to enrich your diet with antioxidants. There are so many to choose from. Even foods like dark chocolate and red wine are loaded with them. Some of the best antioxidants include:

Berries
Broccoli
Grapes
Spinach
You can easily combine all of these suggestions into simple meal plans. For breakfast, switch out bagels and cheerios for yogurt, hard boiled eggs, and a handful or almonds.

When you’re on the run, try combining your healthy snack foods to enjoy vital omega 3s and antioxidants in one go. A grab-bag of walnuts, blueberries, and grapes packs a powerful punch. A don’t forget to wash it down with some antioxidant-rich green tea.

You can’t beat broccoli and grass-fed beef for dinner… or spinach and wild salmon… for a powerful combination of health benefits. And you can help yourself to a glass of red wine (loaded with youth-preserving resveratrol) and a square or two of dark chocolate.

To your health,

Ian Robinson,
Managing Editor, Natural Health Dossier “Health Watch”

Exercise

I am being a hypocrite here.  I say to everyone that you should exercise but I hardly do myself.  I do love to weed and garden, and that is very good.  I also have started to learn TaiChi in the Young style – my pal Patricia and I take weekly lessons on Tuesdays.

TaiChi section 1 Showing for a limited time, for us beginners who still haven’t quite remembered the first section.  Thanks Gerri and Virginia!

TaiChi section 2:

Walk with Leslie Sansone for those of us who need to exercise but we really don’t have the time to put on our sunscreen, exercise clothes, socks and shoes every day.  A great way to walk 2 miles with a nice perky lady.  You will be glad you walk!

 


Bruce Lee playing ping pong with nunchucks.
Okay, this may be beyond what we will ever do, but in my dreams, I would love to be able to do this.  Woooowaaaah!

Check out the PACE exercises in the Exercise section.  Short, fast, slow to intense.  Build lung capacity and you build good health.