Mercari and Temu

Everyone has heard of eBay and Amazon. Those two are the internet giants of online shopping (or maybe just Amazon is the giant). Free shipping, great deals, and finding items to fill our needs and wants.

However, my daughter’s mother-in-law gave me a real nifty pair of bling rubber slippers – but they were one size too small. Fortunately, it still had the info tag, which I searched on Amazon and eBay. No luck. A google search turned up a site called Mercari.com.

Hmmm. This was uncharted territory but it looked like eBay without the traffic. The bling slippers were listed at $3 with $6 shipping from a seller named Mixit. I took the chance, signed up with a user name, password, etc. and ordered it. Lo and behold, it came in brand new, tags on, perfect condition, and fast!

Temu

And then, while sitting in the dentist chair getting my teeth cleaned, my dental hygienist, the loquacious and beautiful Liane told me about Temu.com. She said that it is just like Amazon, but cheaper. And shipping is free for the first 3 orders so take time filling up the cart before finalizing and paying for an order. Temu.com took over Alibaba, the Chinese version of Amazon and thus it sells discounted items with more discounts.

Granted, this was a one-way conversation because my mouth was open and Liane’s fingers and probes were restricting my speaking, but I did manage to ask “what kind of stuff they sell?” And she said “Everything”.

So, I went home and checked it out.

At first, it looked like cheap stuff – like what we used to find at the Dollar Store (when we had that one in Hawaii Kai). But then, they had stuff like solar lights (which is my favorite) and flexible garden hoses (which I like), and Dremel blade and sanding attachments, skin tag remover stickers, sewing clips, gardening stuff, and after awhile, I was so tired of looking, I stopped adding things to my cart, took out some stuff, and hit the pay button. I had 10 items which totaled $36 with free shipping. I wasn’t expecting much, and it did take awhile to get to me, (10 days) but the other day I had a big package delivered with all of them in good condition and felt like I did a big score!

Score!

I was VERY happy with this order – but I did notice that some of the prices went up (if I wanted to re-order) but I actually don’t need to re-order anything. Temu also likes to send me emails and today, I had a “gift” email which was a choose it game, so I played it and chose window #1. This opened up another window of choose a box and I won a 25% discount on one item of my choice, which they immediately doubled to 50%! So of course I scrolled until I found an “expensive” item which was a human sensing solar wall light that was already discounted 46% ($17) and with my 50% discount, I paid $8.74! I might be hooked. And I hope free shipping is NOT just only for the first 3 orders.

It has been fun. But I need to take a break from online shopping. My garden needs weeding and house needs cleaning. And I know, as I go about my daily tasks, I will find that I need this or that. And if Amazon or eBay doesn’t have it, I can also look at Mercari.com and Temu.com. If they don’t have it, then it is not meant to be. Or I have to pay full price – B@(%?*&#!

A shout out to Liane, my favorite dental hygienist at the awesome Dr. Hideki Kurokawa’s office.

From “junk” to cash, with eBay or Amazon

stuffAunty did a post about selling on eBay a couple of years ago.  Aunty also took (paid some bucks) an eBay course from an eBay guru who was a power seller.  Truth to tell, Aunty did not use much of the information since a lot of it was for true rookies and some were for power sellers that are willing to devote all of their time loading, selling, packing, and shipping.

Aunty is more of a “hobby” eBayer, selling rarely and buying more often than she should.

However, since reading Marie Kondo’s book on the magical aspects of tidying up, piles of things that have value but no appeal or use are growing like mushrooms on Aunty’s floor.  These are things that are someone else’s potential source of joy and in new or great condition, so eBay or Amazon are great venues that act like stores for Aunty.

Amazon

The easiest store is Amazon.com.  One of the requirements is that you have the UPC or ISBN or manufacturing code from the packaging (best if you still have the box).  If you have that, it is as easy a matter of entering the condition, number of items available, choosing a few options, setting your price, and SHAZAAM!, your listing is live.  Amazon’s process will fill in the details, pictures, specifications, and your store is on the web.  Listings remain on the site forever, until they sell.

Aunty uses Amazon mainly for books. Fulfillment by Amazon is a service that actually stores and ships out your items – one day Aunty actually shipped out an entire bookcase worth of books that were not being looked at – fees are higher but it was like a wall of freedom with blessed space!

Customer service at Amazon is fantastic.  If you opt for a phone call from customer service, you WILL receive a phone call within minutes!  The only downside as a seller on Amazon is that selling price points are very low, and if you don’t set your selling price low or lower, your inventory does not move.  That being said, it is a great place to find bargains!

eBay

It used to be painfully difficult to sell on eBay.  All of the descriptions were the responsibility of the seller, and photo editing, sizing, and uploading were time consuming and laborious.

Now, with the advent of eBay’s mobile app (eBay), it is super duper easy to begin a listing with the app, take all the photos with your smart phone, save the listing as a draft, and then use your computer to complete the listing.  If you are a 100% mobile user, you could complete everything with your phone but the screen is much too small for Aunty’s aging eyes and scrolling is a pain.  A computer screen allows Aunty to see the whole picture and more wonderful options reveal themselves, iAo (in Aunty’s opinion).

One of the new options is to enter the ISBN or whatever they call the numbers that manufacturers use to identify their items.  Entering this will fill in a lot of the vitals of your items for sale, almost like Amazon!

The advantage of eBay being an auction site rather than a set price “store” like Amazon is that you could potentially get big bucks even if you don’t realize that your item is super desirable.  Listings are usually on for just 7 days, but can easily be relisted if it does not sell, all for free.  Fees are based on sales price, so if it sells, you pay.  If it doesn’t sell, you don’t pay.

eBay also started a service that is almost like Amazon’s Fulfillment by Amazon program.  eBay Valet will provide a shipping code and easy form to simply list the items that you want to sell (only certain items qualify), put them in a box and take it to a FedEx store, where it ships for free(!) to a “valet” who will do all the work and list your item(s) for sale on eBay.  If it sells, you get a percentage and they take a percentage.  Fees are rather high this way, but the convenience is wonderful.  They are very picky about what they accept and will return the items that they reject.  Aunty can attest to that – the valet returned most of the things that were sent and only listed a couple of the items.  The good thing is that it didn’t cost Aunty a single cent to ship out or receive back the rejected items.

Shipping ease

Another great improvement is the ability to print shipping labels that have all the shipment info on it from your computer to your printer.  The shipping costs (Aunty only uses USPS) are slightly lower than going to the post office and charged against your PayPal account.  After the shipping label is printed, just trim, tape on the package, and pop it in the drive through mail box!  They look super professional, with all the correct info, tracking number, and addresses printed in crisp black font.  SUPER easy!

Danger

The greatest danger in using eBay and/or Amazon is the potential to shop and spend.  Using their services to get cash for things that need to go out of the house is really terrific.  Aunty loves seeing her Paypal account (acts as a bank to collect and pay eBay transactions) grow a little and grow a little more with each successful sale.

It is better not to look or search for items of interest on either site because you WILL find tantalizing treasures that will whet your appetite and draw your finger to the BUY button.  Aunty’s weakness is Issey Miyake.

Buy, if you must, especially if not buying will become a regret.  If you later decide that it no longer gives you joy, add it to the pile of “mushrooms” and sell it on eBay.

Raise.com = Shopping nirvana

Raise!!!!Update added at end of this article.

Ever since Aunty turned 55 almost a decade ago, Tuesdays at Ross Dress for Less became her favorite shopping excursion because they gave 10% off to seniors.

Pal Jim turned Aunty on to Cardpool.com and Aunty could buy Ross (and other) gift cards at 20% savings.  However, over time, Cardpool offered less and less of a discount, and recently Ross cards, if available, were at a 13% savings, which is still a good deal, especially when shopping on Tuesdays and also getting the senior 10% discount.

Then, just last week, hanabata days (from kid time) pal Cookie said, “Eh, you heard of Raise.com?”  Pal Cookie is a shopping guru on steroids.  She knows everything about everywhere and finds the best bargains and products all over the place.

“Better than Cardpool.com?” Aunty asked.  “Go look”, she said, and Aunty did.

OMG – better than Cardpool.com because the discounts are higher and there are more retails stores in the offerings.  Aunty just purchased her Ross gift card at 18% savings – woohoo!  When it arrives in the mail, Aunty is going shopping at Ross’ on Tuesday with a 28% (18% + 10%) discount pass in hand!

It is also a site to search and search because discounts vary for each establishment depending on the dollar value as well as the day of the week.  According to Cookie, Fridays are good bonus days to buy cards because they sometimes have an additional 5% discount thrown in the mix!  They also run “specials” which can be easily found on the left of the menu.

On top of that (this is killing Aunty because it just keeps getting better and better!), Raise.com offers $5 credit to referred newbies after the first purchase – one credit to the newbie and one credit to the referrer!

When you sign up, you will get a user name that is made up of the first letter of your first name and the rest of it with your last name.  (hint:  if you want a custom user name, put a first letter in the first name line and the rest of the name in the last name line.  Example, “aunty” was entered as “a” in the first name line and “unty” in the last name line.  You can then change your name in your profile afterwards, but you will not be able to change your user name – ever.  Another example, if you want “jalna” as your user name, enter “j” as your first name and “alna” as your last name.  Change your first and last name after you complete sign up.)

After you get signed up, then you can refer people to sign up with emails, facebook, etc.  When they come to the section of referral code, they enter your user name (like “aunty”, ahem) , and BAM! you get $5 and they get $5.  Reminds Aunty of Paypal when it first started years ago.  Rewards for referring people to join earned both parties $5.  Then, Paypal got so huge and popular, it didn’t need referrals anymore.

Even if Raise.com didn’t give referral credits of $5, Aunty still thinks it is a great place to acquire discounts from favorite stores such as Whole Foods, Apple Store, Taco Bell, oh my!  This is going to be delicious dangerous research into forced shopping due to purchased savings.

Much mahalo to Pal Cookie for her great tip and helping Aunty to spend money.  To shop is human, to share discounts is divine.

*Update, update!!!  Aunty was very pleased with her new Ross gift card and was going to shop with it.  However, something told Aunty to check the card first.  These cards come from somebody else – someone who is selling their card.  

On the back of the gift card is a toll free number to Ross’ balance inquiry customer service line: 1-800-798-4055.  Aunty followed the prompts, then put in the gift card number followed by the # key.  Blip blurp oh oh, Aunty was informed that this card account was closed.  Closed?  Yikes?!!

So then, Aunty called the Raise Member Services number: 888-578-8422 and waited for an available customer representative.  After a few minutes, Aunty got Bryce – a very nice young man who apologized and informed Aunty that sometimes cards are invalid for various reasons.  Raise.com has a 100 day money back guarantee (so check or use your cards quickly, fellow shoppers!) and the refund process was begun.  Phew!

Will Aunty use Raise.com again?  You betcha!  Aunty was impressed with Bryce’s niceness (Bryce, nice, get it? heh heh heh) and also the money back guarantee.  Aunty’s shopping excursion to Ross’ will have to wait for another Tuesday in the near future.  Perhaps that is a good way to save money, sort of.

 

 

Talk to strangers and get tipped

YunjiAunty likes to talk to strangers, especially when waiting in lines or when nothing is going on.

At Kozo Sushi Kahala, Aunty was next to KITV4’s strikingly beautiful news anchor, Yunji deNies.  Yunji was one of the MCs at the recent Cherry Blossom Festival Ball, so not only was she kinda famous, she was also kinda connected, if you understand local da kinds.

Anywho, Yunji was really nice and friendly, and she also shared a great tip with Aunty!  It is the Bishop Estate’s free  Malama app that gives discounts at many businesses that are located on Bishop Estate properties (i.e. LOTS of places such as most of the shopping centers and malls).  The neat thing about it is how it can pull up the discounts based on where you are geographically on the islands.  She whipped out her iPhone, and she got her sushi platter at Kozo for a special price!

It was so easy to download the Malama app.  If you have a hard time doing so, visit the helpful people at any Apple Store.  Update note:  This app freezes if you have the latest operating system on iPhones.  Aunty didn’t upgrade to the ios8 so her Malama app still works.  Hopefully the good folks at Kamehameha Schools fix this glitch in the near future.

Key elements of the Mālama Card iPhone Application:

  • GPS location and merchant map
    Users will have the ability to opt-in to sending GPS coordinates via their iPhone. Once a user opts-in, the application will use this GPS information to pull up a list of merchants and promotions nearest them.The application will display direction, north, south, east and west (N-S-E-W) and how far away the users are from each merchant in meters.We’ve also built in a merchant map screen that shows all Mālama Card merchants on a map along with the user’s current position. This enables the user to browse through all merchants in their area.
  • Virtual merchant and promotion list
    The Mālama Card iPhone application is an alternative method for viewing merchants and promotions available through the Mālama Card program.Giving users access to merchant and promotion lists will make it easier for potential customers to see the value of the Mālama Card program.
  • Virtual Merchant profile screen
    Each Mālama Card merchant has their very own profile screen in the Mälama Card iPhone application. The merchant profile screen displays contact information, address, web address and telephone number.Users can tap the merchant’s web address to view more information directly on their iPhone. Users can also tap the merchant’s phone number to launch the phone utility and send a call to the merchant.
  • Social media integration
    Users can connect to their Facebook and Twitter accounts to send status updates on savings and discounts from the Mālama Card iPhone application. Users can also send an e-mail message to their friends directly from the merchant profile screen.
  • Virtual Malama Card
    Once a user sees a discount they would like to take advantage of, they can tap the “Virtual Card” screen to launch an electronic version of the actual Mālama Card. Customers can show their iPhone to the merchant to redeem their discount or promotion.

All Mālama Card merchants are located on Kamehameha Schools’ commercial properties. These properties include Royal Hawaiian Center, Windward Mall, Pearlridge Center, Kahala Mall, Kapālama Shopping Center, as well as Waipahu, Waiakamilo, Kaka’ako, Keauhou, and Hawai’i Kai. Income from the school’s commercial leases fund KS’ campus and community outreach programs throughout the state.

Kamehameha Schools is a private, educational, charitable trust founded and endowed by the legacy of Princess Bernice Pauahi Bishop. Kamehameha Schools operates a statewide educational system enrolling more than 6,900 students of Hawaiian ancestry at K-12 campuses on O’ahu, Maui and Hawai’i and 31 preschool sites statewide. Approximately 37,500 additional Hawaiian learners are served each year through a range of other Kamehameha Schools’ outreach programs, community collaborations and financial aid opportunities in Hawai’i and across the continental United States.

Isn’t this a nifty app to have – save money at all kinds of places, all over Hawaii, for free?  Yunji got her Kozo Sushi Kahala discount on sushi platters right off the bat.  Next time, Aunty will too, as well as 10% off at one of Aunty’s favorite lunch places next door, Ba-Le (note update:  Ba-Le doesn’t honor the discount.  Oh well, it is still one of Aunty’s favorites – their beef stew is delicious as well as their tofu sandwich.)

Mahalo much, Yunji!  So glad to have a nice new niece!

2 Rules for Wealth

2013-04-14_16-16-25Mark Ford writes for the Palm Beach Newsletter.  He recently wrote an article about “Breaking the Chains of Financial Slavery.”  Here are his key points:

Acquiring wealth through some short-term investment strategies is possible, but not probable.

However, in a relatively short period of time, anyone can achieve freedom from financial slavery in just a few years.  It does not have to be a lifelong process.

 

If you are in a financial slavery situation , here are five wealth-building strategies to get you out and moving in the opposite direction.
First of all though, what does financial slavery mean?  Most commonly it means two things:

You earn less than you spend.

You owe more than you own.

 

If you earn less than you spend, you are in a constant state of stress. You must put off or partially pay your bills. You must appease creditors. And all the while, your debt is mounting.
If you owe more than you own, then you can’t buy a house or lease a car or get a loan from anyone other than your parents. (And what if they are dead or tired of helping you…or don’t have the money?)
Because you are in so much trouble, you can’t even think about taking nice vacations or retiring someday. Instead, you have to worry about losing your job. So you keep working and reading investment newsletters. But as each month passes, your financial situation gets worse.
It’s a miserable existence. But it doesn’t have to last. You can break the chains you feel attached to by simply recognizing and reversing the two “facts” mentioned above.
Problem #1: You earn less than you spend.
Solution (Rule #1): Spend less and earn more.

Spend Less
You can’t break the chains of slavery without hitting them hard with a big mallet. You won’t be able to gain the independence you want in a few years or less by cutting $10 here and $50 there.
The recommendation is to cut your expenses by 30% to 50%.
That sounds crazy. And it may be impossible in your case. But don’t dismiss the idea until you understand the concept. The primary factor in how much you spend every month is the neighborhood you live in. Your neighborhood creates the financial culture that presents the spending choices you make. If you live in a community of million-dollar homes, you will be looking at new BMWs and Audis when it comes to buying or leasing a car. When you go out to dinner, chances are, you’ll be spending more than a hundred dollars per couple.
Unless you live in a working-class neighborhood now, you can radically reduce your spending by moving into one.
We all know people (maybe even friends and relatives) that live in expensive homes in beautiful neighborhoods and drive luxury cars, but the reality is they are broke and getting poorer every month. They refuse to even consider the idea of downsizing because they are simply too ashamed to do so. What they don’t realize is every month they try to “hold on,” it is making them poorer.
Moving to a less expensive neighborhood would be the quickest, biggest, and surest way to bring their spending down by 30% to 50%.
Earn More
The other thing you must do to improve your situation is to earn more money. You should take immediate steps to increase your income by 20% to 50%. That seems radical, but if you want a “short-term” solution out of financial slavery, this is just as important as radically cutting expenses.
There are dozens of ways to increase your income.  Take some time to figure out what those ways can be for yourself.  [For Aunty, it might be network marketing a truly great product that I believe in.  Or, cashflow from real estate investments.  Or selling my “valuable” clutter on eBay and Amazon.]
Problem #2: You owe more than you own.
Solution (Rule #2): Start owing less and owning more.

Owe Less
If you have accumulated a lot of debt, it means that you don’t see debt as financially dangerous. You must accept the fact that most debt you have is bad for you. There are only a few exceptions: mortgage debt when interest rates are low, and business debt when the business is sound and you are not personally liable.
The first step towards debt management is to get rid of every credit card you have, as well as any credit you have with your bankers. Use cash or debit cards for your shopping. Yes, that means there will be lots of things you can’t buy every month. That’s a good thing, not a bad thing. [True, that.  But Aunty loves her Hawaiian Miles VISA cards because of the miles – but I make sure I don’t charge too much and I always pay off the balance in full to avoid any finance charges.]
If you have a lot of existing credit card debt, you need to consolidate it. Then work with a professional to pay it off at reasonable interest rates.
If you are lucky enough to have equity in your home, then trading it for a cheaper one (see above) will accomplish two important goals: it will reduce your monthly expenses, and it will give you a chunk of cash that you can use to pay off debt or put aside as savings.
Own More
You must increase what you own. And by that, I do NOT mean cars or boats or furniture or toys. I mean tangible assets that are likely to appreciate such as gold coins, income-producing real estate, dividend producing stocks, etc.
Every extra after-tax dollar you make by taking on extra work or starting a side business should be devoted to increasing your ownership of such assets. None of it should be spent.
Being financially independent is not about having a big house or driving new cars or taking fancy vacations. There are tens of thousands of Americans in that situation today who are financial slaves just like you. They are in chains because they spend more than they make and owe more than they own. Their stress is just as great as yours, even though they may make more money or have more toys.
Being financially independent means having more income than you need and owing far less than you own.
It means knowing that you won’t be harassed by bill collectors or embarrassed at the supermarket. It means you have money put aside to take care of any emergencies that come up, and it means a savings account that gets substantially bigger every year.
Becoming a multimillionaire takes years. But breaking the chains of financial slavery can be done relatively quickly. The hardest part is recognizing the chains that are binding you—earning less than you spend and owing more than you own—and deciding to do something serious about them.

Savings Main page

2013-04-01_14-19-38We all have rainy days.  Having a little pot of savings is like always having an umbrella in your car.  Not only that – Ben Franklin was absolutely spot on when he said, “A penny saved is a penny earned.”  Those saved pennies can be used for investments that can grow into wealth.

My friend Larry is a financial guru.  He believes in putting aside some money in a savings account for spending before any other bi-weekly expenses or expenditures.  That way, if something comes up that his son or wife wants, they take a look at the balance of that account, and many times he can say, not yet.  We used to say, “Bum bye” (= laters).  Sometimes laters never comes, or you change your mind and find something else you want.  It’s good discipline and different from the instant gratification of credit cards going crazy.

Rich Dad also believes in paying yourself first.  Three “piggy banks” – 10% to savings, 10% to investment, 10% to charity, tithing.  Even starting small with $10 in each account, or even 5¢ from the kids’ allowances will improve your life and life long habits.  It is blessed to give, and smart to save, and even smarter to invest.

Another way to save is to spend less.  I have learned mantras that I will use the next time I go in to buy a car.  Below are other ways to spend less.

Zippy’s has a great site that changes every other week for coupon savings off of specials.  (sometimes they do not have coupons)

Are you a “couponer?”  Aunty used to cut out those discount saving coupons from newspapers and magazines in the old days.  Now they are available online.  A great website for finding them is MrsCarrigan.com.

MrMealDeal.com is a great website for discounts at various restaurants in town.  Or, you can pick your own city in the USA.  Print out the coupons and please pay attention to the expiration as well as the specifics of each offer.

Island Burger in Ala Moana, Tuesday kids eat free.  For every adult ordering an entrée 2 kids eat free.  Yes, 2 not just 1!

Show your AAA card at Crocs Stores, and get 20% off!  I love my Crocs!  I now have leopard printed Crocs, but found out that AAA and Crocs no longer have a discount deal together.  Sometimes the nice sales staff will let you get a discount if a special is running.

Groupon is a great way to get daily deals sent to you.  If you are interested in signing up, please use the link on the ads bar on this page.  That way I get $10 credit when you first join.  I have used it to get a $50 Nordstrom Rack certificate for $25 – not too shabby since that is also one of my favorite stores.  I also just purchased a $15 certificate for Kaimuki Grill for $7, more than half off!  [update:  I purchased a hair removal (lol, tmi) certificate that I knew I wouldn’t be able to use before the expiration date, contacted customer service via email, and was immediately refunded so I now have a credit balance in my account!  THAT’S great service and reflects a great company.]  Another great thing about Groupon is that they send you reminder emails to use your coupons – good for someone like me who forgets things more and more.

Speaking of Kaimuki Grill, google search Kaimuki Grill coupon and it will take you to a coupon site, pretty neat place where you can search by categories for places that may have coupons!  Going there with some great friends soon, and we’ll be saving 10%!

If you go to your local USPS post office, ask for their address change packet.  In it you will find a 10% off coupon from Lowe’s, or click here and download a printable coupon.

Get a CVS card (stores are still called Longs Drugs here in Hawaii) and get a credit of 3% when you show the card to the cashier before they begin processing your purchases.  Not quite sure how that works, but every little bit counts!  And have a mainland friend get that pretty green leaf that you attach on a shopping bag so you get credited 25¢ each time you use your own bag for your purchases (limit of 1 credit per day)  Boohoo, CVS does not honor the leaf credit anymore.  Still, the CVS card will get you built up credits and nice discounts from time to time.

Cardpool.com is a great place to get gift cards that are discounted.  Choose your favorites and they will email you when your choices become available.  Aunty likes the Ross gift cards and uses them on senior Tuesdays to get an even bigger discount!

Senior discounts where it pays to be older.  Very nice to be rewarded this way!

More senior discounts, or updated ones for you!

Some mainland discounts for our generation.

Travel saving tips  to share with you.  I feel like a veteran traveler now that I go to Vegas and California at least 3 times a year.  Aunty loves flying on Hawaiian Airlines, and now I am an affiliate of them!  So please use the banner or ad link that you see on this page to book your flight on Hawaiian, and Aunty will make 1.5%!

Mantra while buying a car

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Mercedes GLK, Aunty’s potential next car……

From Jason Leister of Early to Rise, I have learned a mantra that I shall incorporate the next time I bargain for our next car.

You see, I am always looking for the next good used car to own.  Since I have yet to find the perfect vehicle, I show up at dealer sales and often times surprise Uncle with “our” new used car in the driveway.  Most of the time, Uncle is not happy with my choices, but since I am the one who will be driving that vehicle the most, he learns to be okay about it.

However, I’ve always felt that I could have done better in the deal (after the fact).  So, when an article by Jason Leister entitled “The Promise” arrived in my email, I found 2 golden nuggets of information to help me deal with those car salesmen.

Here are two mantras for every sales negotiation that Jason has provided.  He says to repeat these to yourself until you feel them. (Generating the feeling is really the key.)

1.  I don’t need the business.

2.  I don’t need the money.

These are great mantras when you are on the other side of the table as the person selling something of value to someone else (called positioning).  However, turn them around when dealing with a person selling you something, and it will look like this:

1.  I don’t need that car.

2.  I don’t need to spend my money today.

If you can really really believe and feel those 2 mantras when you are in negotiation for what you want, you are in control, and 1) will be able to drive out with a great deal, or 2) walk away knowing you did great realizing that there will be other deals out there for you.

This also works with real estate negotiations.  When it is a property that I really really want, I make offers that I shouldn’t.  When I can pull my emotions out of the picture and say to myself that I really don’t have to have that house, and I don’t need to buy it today, I am better able to set a price (and stick to it).  That can make a difference between a great deal vs an okay deal.

I am actually very excited to try this new mindset with my two new mantras when I go looking for our next car.  Hopefully Uncle will be pleased with it the next time I show up in a different car.

Even more Senior Discounts!

Subject:  Senior Discounts

Gone are the days of your grandmother’s “early bird special” at the local
diner. As our baby boomers reach retirement age, hundreds of retailers are
featuring new and improved discounts exclusively for the 60 (and even 50+) and
older crowd. We have composed a list of senior savings that will help you keep
more cash in your pocket. Whoever said getting older was a bad thing, obviously
didn’t know about these fantastic senior discounts!
Restaurants
* Applebee’s: 15% off with Golden Apple Card (60+)
* Arby’s: 10% off (55+)
* Ben & Jerry’s: 10% off (60+)
* Bennigan’s: discount varies by location
* Bob’s Big Boy: discount varies by location (60+)
* Boston Market: 10% off (65+)
* Burger King: 10% off (60+)
* Captain D’s Seafood: discount varies on location (62+)
* Chick-Fil-A: 10% off or free small drink or coffee (55+)
* Chili’s: 10% off (55+)
* CiCi’s Pizza: 10% off (60+)
* Culver’s: 10% off (60+)
* Denny’s: 10% off, 20% off for AARP members (55+)
* Dunkin’ Donuts: 10% off or free coffee (55+)
* Einstein’s Bagels: 10% off baker’s dozen of bagels (60+)
* Fuddrucker’s: 10% off any senior platter (55+)
* Gatti’s Pizza: 10% off (60+)
* Golden Corral: 10% off (60+)
* Hardee’s: $0.33 beverages everyday (65+)
* IHOP: 10% off (55+)
* Jack in the Box: up to 20% off (55+)
* KFC: free small drink with any meal (55+)
* Krispy Kreme: 10% off (50+)
* Long John Silver’s: various discounts at participating locations (55+)
* McDonald’s: discounts on coffee everyday (55+)
* Mrs. Fields: 10% off at participating locations (60+)
* Shoney’s: 10% off
* Sonic: 10% off or free beverage (60+)
* Steak ‘n Shake: 10% off every Monday & Tuesday (50+))
* Subway: 10% off (60+)
* Sweet Tomatoes 10% off (62+)
* Taco Bell: 5% off; free beverages for seniors (65+)))
* TCBY: 10% off (55+)
* Tea Room Cafe: 10% off (50+)
* Village Inn: 10% off (60+)
* Waffle House: 10% off every Monday (60+)

* Wendy’s: 10% off (55+)

* White Castle: 10% off (62+)

Uncle and I discovered that as seniors we could catch any Metro bus before 3:00 pm for 25¢ in Pasadena.  Probably work in other part of Los Angeles – ask for it!
Retail and Apparel%
* Banana Republic: 10% off (50+)
* Bealls: 20% off first Tuesday of each month (50+)
* Belk’s: 15% off first Tuesday of every month (55+))))
* Big Lots: 10% off
* Bon-Ton Department Stores: 15% off on senior discount days (55+)
* C.J. Banks: 10% off every Wednesday (60+)
* Clarks: 10% off (62+)
* Dress Barn: 10% off (55+)
* Goodwill: 10% off one day a week (date varies by location)
* Hallmark: 10% off one day a week (date varies by location)
* Kmart: 20% off (50+)
* Kohl’s: 15% off (60+)
* Modell’s Sporting Goods: 10% off
* Rite Aid: 10% off on Tuesdays & 10% off prescriptions
* Ross Stores: 10% off every Tuesday (55+)
* The Salvation Army Thrift Stores: up to 50% off (55+)
* Stein Mart: 20% off red dot/clearance items first Monday of every month
(55+).
Grocery
* Albertson’s: 10% off first Wednesday of each month (55+)
* American Discount Stores: 10% off every Monday (50+)
* Compare Foods Supermarket: 10% off every Wednesday (60+)
* DeCicco Family Markets: 5% off every Wednesday (60+)
* Food Lion: 6% off every Monday (60+)
* Fry’s Supermarket: free Fry’s VIP Club Membership & 10% off every
Monday (55+)
* Great Valu Food Store: 5% off every Tuesday (60+)
* Gristedes Supermarket: 10% off every Tuesday (60+)
* Harris Teeter: 5% off every Tuesday (60+)
* Hy-Vee: 5% off one day a week (date varies by location)
* Kroger: 10% off (date varies by location)
* Morton Williams Supermarket: 5% off every Tuesday (60+)
* The Plant Shed: 10% off every Tuesday (50+)
* Publix: 5% off every Wednesday (55+)
* Rogers Marketplace: 5% off every Thursday (60+)
* Uncle Guiseppe’s Marketplace: 5% off (62+)
Travel
* Alaska Airlines: 10% off (65+)
* Alamo: up to 25% off for AARP members
* American Airlines: various discounts for 65 and up (call before booking
for discount)
* Amtrak: 15% off (62+)
* Avis: up to 25% off for AARP members
* Best Western: 10% off (55+)
* Budget Rental Cars: 10% off; up to 20% off for AARP members (50+)
* Cambria Suites: 20%-30% off (60+)
* Clarion: 20%-30% off (60+)
* Comfort Inn: 20%-30% off (60+)
* Comfort Suites: 20%-30% off (60+)
* Continental: no initiation fee for Continental Presidents Club &
special fares for select destinations
* Dollar Rent-A-Car: 10% off (50+)
* Econo Lodge: 20%-30% off (60+)
* Enterprise Rent-A-Car: 5% off for AARP members
* Greyhound: 5% off (62+)
* Hampton Inns & Suites: 10% off when booked 72 hours in advance
* Hertz: up t0 25% off for AARP members
* Holiday Inn: 10%-30% off depending on location (62+)
* Hyatt Hotels: 25%-50% off (62+)
* InterContinental Hotels Group: various discounts at all hotels (65+)
* Mainstay Suites: 10% off with Mature Traveler’s Discount (50+); 20%-30%
off (60+)
* Marriott Hotels: 15% off (62+)
* Motel 6: 10% off (60+)
* Myrtle Beach Resort: 10% off (55+)
* National Rent-A-Car: up to 30% off for AARP members
* Quality Inn: 20%-30% off (60+)
* Rodeway Inn: 20%-30% off (60+)
* Sleep Inn: 20%-30% off (60+)
* Southwest Airlines: various discounts for ages 65 and up (call before
booking for discount)
* Trailways Transportation System: various discounts for ages 50 and up
* United Airlines: various discounts for ages 65 and up (call before
booking for discount)
* U.S. Airways: various discounts for ages 65 and up (call before booking
for discount)
Activities & Entertainment
* AMC Theaters: up to 30% off (55+)
* Bally Total Fitness: up to $100 off memberships (62+)
* Busch Gardens Tampa: $3 off one-day tickets (50+)
* Carmike Cinemas: 35% off (65+)
* Cinemark/Century Theaters: up to 35% off
* U.S. National Parks: $10 lifetime pass; 50% off additional services
including camping (62+)
* Regal Cinemas: 30% off
* Ripley’s Believe it or Not: @ off one-day ticket (55+)
* SeaWorld Orlando: $3 off one-day tickets (50+)

Senior Discounts

This is good info if you are a senior – that is, 55 and up.  Some of these discounts are for 60 year olds.  It “pays” to be old, lol.

Most of these places don’t ask to see your ID.  Just look and act old.

Place                         Age                        Day                              Discount

Ross                            55                      Tuesdays                     10% off everything

Foodland                    60                     Thursdays               10% off everything until 4/28/11 (now it is 5% off groceries until 10/28/11)

Price Busters             55                       Tuesdays                   10% off everything

Flora Dec Sales         55                       Everyday                   10% off regular prices

Leonard’s Bakery      Kamaaina           Mondays                   10% off

Don Quijote               60                      Tuesdays                  10% off regular, 5% off electronics

Zippy’s                       65 ID                     Everyday                    10% off with Senior Card except for specials or with coupons (The Senior Card is $2.00 annually but can be renewed for $0.99 in Sept. at the Senior Citizen Fair, at the NBC.)

Hilo  Hatties               Kamaaina              Everyday                 25% off Hilo Hattie label, 15% off Non-Hilo Hattie label, 10% off Hilo Hattie food

Longs Sr. Advantage card if you have one  Everyday           10% off CVS products and Hallmark cards, discount on prescriptions if not covered by your drug plan

St.  Germaine Bakery    60                 Wednesdays            10% off everything except specials

Pagoda, Maple Garden, Willows,  Prince Court and Hakone, Makinochaya                            age 60?               10% off

Oceanarium, PBH         65                  Tues. and Wed.           Between 4:30 and 5:30 pm – 2 for 1 dinners, Regular price is $38.95

Thurs. and Fri.             Lunch is $12.50 for Sr.

McDonald’s, Burger King, Jack In The Box Sr. coffee and soft drinks,     age 55

Shirokiya                                                Wednesdays

Kahala Mall Hallmark                        Tuesdays                    Mark’s Hallmark Cards – 20%

Kahala Mall Compleat Kitchen – 10% discount on Tuesdays between 10 am and 12 noon for Seniors age 62+.

Consolidated and Regal Theatres           Everyday                     Sr. tickets – $7 or $7.50

DH Theatre,  Manoa Valley Theatre ,  HI Theatre

Big City Diner            65?                 7 – 9 AM                          Senior breakfast items offered
anytime                               You can add $1 to the Keiki menu and order from the keiki menu

More discounts, and not just for Seniors

Place
AgeDayDiscounts
Cold Stone CreameryKamaainaEveryday10% off with I.D.
Hilo HattieKamaainaEveryday25% off Hilo Hattie label 15% off other labels 10% off Hilo Hattie food
Leonard’s BakeryKamaainaMondays10% off
Denny’sAnyoneYour BirthdayFree Breakfast
Longs Drugs/CVSAnyone – Extra Care cardEverydayCash & other discounts based on purchases
55 – Senior Advantage cardEveryday10% off CVS items, Hallmark cards, etc.
Papa John Pizza50Everyday50% off (ask for the 50/50 card or just show your I.D.)
Consolidated Theatres55Everyday$7.50
Flora Dec Sales55Everyday10% off regular prices
McDonalds, Burger King, Jack in the Box55EverydaySpecial prices for drinks
Price Busters55Tuesdays10% off everything
Regal Theatres55Everyday$7
Ross55Tuesdays10% off everything
Savers55Mondays20% off
Shirokiya55Wednesdays10% off regular price; 5% off camera department
Waikele Shopping Center55 (AAA members can pick up a discount booklet @ the Info Kiosk.)Tuesdays (AAA car also good @ all Chelsea Premium Outlets in Vegas)10% off at select stores
Wailana Coffee House(No discount on holidays& weekends)55Tue/ThuMon/Wed/Fri10% off all day10% off 3 pm to 5 pm
Wendy’s (Pearl City – call other locations)55EverydayFree coffee & soft drinks
Byron’s Drive In60Everyday10% off
Don Quijote60Tuesdays10% off regular prices; 5% off electronics
Goodwill60Tuesday20% off
Hakone (Hawaii Prince Hotel)60Wed/ThuDinner $43.10
Maple Garden / Yen King60EverydayLunch $10.50, Dinner $14
Marks Hallmark (Kahala Mall)60Tuesday20% off
Pagoda Restaurant60Everyday15% off dinner (From Feb – all meals)
Prince Court (Hawaii Prince Hotel)60Mon to ThuBreakfast $19.50; Lunch $23.94; Dinner $39.50
St. Germaine Bakery60Wednesdays10% off everything (except specials)
Sugoi (Dillingham Plaza – Old Gem’s Store)60Everyday10% off
Watanabe Florist60Tuesdays10% off
Anna Millers Coffee House62 (Sign up for free card & receive a certificate for a free whole pie but not on Easter or Mother’s Day)Mon – Thu (Open 24 hrs.)10% off check & whole pies(1 free entrée on your birthday)
Compleat Kitchen (Kahala Mall)62Tuesdays10% off 11 am to 12 pm
Dairy Queen/Orange Julius62Everyday10% off (Ala Moana Mall only)
Harbor Village Cuisine (Koko Marina Shop. Ctr.)62Lunch Only15% off
KamaainaEveryday10% off
KFC65Everyday10% off
Makino Chaya65Everyday5% off lunch; 10% off dinner; Birthday free with ID
Oceanarium (Pacific Beach Hotel)65Tue/Wed 4:30 to 5:30 pm$12.50 lunch (regular $15.50)$22 dinner (regular $38.95)
Tsukiji’s Fish Market (Ala Moana Mall)A65Everyday25% off
Willows65Everyday10% off
Zippy’s65Everyday10% off w/ senior cardSenior card is $2 annually
Macy’s (You don’t pay tax in Vegas)Visitors from the Mainland or Other Islands or if you visit Other IslandsEverydayReceive a discount coupon to use in the store but you must show your airline ticket
Carter’s & Oshkosh B’GoshGrandparentWednesdays10% off (with Carter Celebration card – register free on-line for either Carter’s or Oshkosh B’Gosh)